0 1, eating out with some friends, it started to rain lightly. Xiaomei, a girl, received a phone call from her boyfriend. It sounds as if her boyfriend is asking her if she wants to pick her up. Xiaomei kept saying no, so I took an umbrella and went back by car. The other party did not refuse again. After a few words, she hung up the phone, and Xiaomei was somewhat disappointed. Actually, I can guess that Xiaomei wants her boyfriend to pick her up. On the one hand, it is too dark for girls to walk safely. On the other hand, it's raining and someone comes to pick it up, so my heart is warm. But Xiaomei, why did you refuse? Probably because she doesn't want others to pay too much in this relationship, just accept it and don't want to look so dependent on each other. Does the caller really want to answer the phone? I think if you really want to answer the phone, you should not call like this, but send me a location and I'll pick you up! Not the tone of inquiry, but the tone of affirmation. There is a saying that as long as it is you, everything is on the way. It means that if a person really loves another person, he will give him all the good things. 02. Someone said, "Is Xiaomei too tired? If I want my boyfriend to answer the phone, I won't wait for my boyfriend to call. I will call her directly and tell her it's raining. Come and pick me up! " Ok, the first time your boyfriend came to pick you up. I was still very happy the second time. The third, fourth, fifth and sixth time? Will anyone be like this forever? Take good care of you. I will be willing to put everything at hand, your affairs and your interests first. No one can do it except my parents. Don't test human nature or the depth of love. If you just want to be taken care of, then you are a canary, not suitable for working, making friends and socializing outside. If you want to be independent of your boyfriend in spirit, personality and money, please be a tree. When the sun is shining, I will bathe in it. When it rains, I will take an umbrella, walk or run. On the way forward, the person you love now may not be your eternal lover. There's no need to look vulnerable, it's just a light rain. Lowering expectations of others will also reduce disappointment in relationships. Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer girls in this society who can't unscrew the bottle cap. Because such girls find that from the first time they can't unscrew the bottle cap, they will be on the weak side of the relationship. Over time, I was not only cared about, but also controlled. Your own ideas and ways of dealing with people are not recognized by the other party. When your boyfriend asks you if you want it, you'd better refuse. When someone asks you if you want it, you'd better refuse. Because when the other person can provide you with help or care, it is not initiative or affirmation, but it shows that he is not so convenient when asking you, and he is eager for your refusal. In the long run, you will be a little disappointed. In the long run, you will get double respect. We often see the love and marriage of female stars on TV. When reporters interview their other half, the other half often praises her. She is very independent. When the word independence is more and more described as an excellent girl, it is no longer effective for you to get a love by coquetry and weakness. Only children without umbrellas want to run like hell. When it rains, whether you have a boyfriend or not, don't think about whether he can pick you up. Whether he comes or not, you should be there. Think about whether you have brought an umbrella or saved money in advance to buy a car or house for yourself. This is the fact that you should consider whether you are married or not. He really came to pick you up. You saw him when you went out. You can't accept it with a clear conscience. You should try to give feedback. Love can only last if it comes and goes. Then you don't have to be disappointed if you don't go home. You should observe him carefully again. At the same time, I reflect on myself, and there is nothing for him to look down upon, or that he is really busy. Only if you love yourself, others will love you more. So try to make money, buy more clothes, better cosmetics, and a car that can shelter you from the wind and rain, so that you can live better. Because loving yourself is your own business first. If you become better, you are qualified to embrace the future. Come on, girls.