People who love fragrance, middle-aged, feel that their life is elegant, people who love strong fragrance, middle-aged people who love maotai flavor, and middle-aged people who love maotai flavor feel that their life is colorful.
Therefore, the definition of innocence at the age of 40 is very enlightening: in the age of innocence, people are not confused by the world, but after 40, they don't want to elaborate on what they wanted to find out before, but want to find out.
In fact, people begin to think about their own lives before middle age. When they reach middle age, their thoughts become more mature. Whether they live in seclusion or not, you are all in the rivers and lakes of life, and you have experienced the worldly wisdom and the wind and frost of the rivers and lakes, such as drinking friends. When people reach middle age, they drink not wine, but life, as the song goes: life is a glass of wine, full of ups and downs of life. When people reach middle age, they may be physically and mentally exhausted. After drinking a glass of wine, they can empty themselves for a while, as long as they are not immersed and addicted.
When people reach middle age, they no longer love wine banter, but only drink a cup alone. Every time they drink enough alone, their life thinking will be sublimated once, so proper drinking will help them reflect! When people reach the middle road, they are no longer prosperous. What they have, what they have lost, what they have gained, what they are lonely and happy are just like drinking water. They know themselves very well, so they won't be mixed with sadness and joy here. In a glass of wine, they will still move on.
After drinking a bowl of hometown wine, middle age is gone forever. I wish I were a teenager after drinking!
When I was 40 years old, drinking had two characteristics. One is that I no longer like lively banquets, and the other is that I like to drink two cups by myself before dinner every day.
In the past, whenever I met a wine field, it must be a lively place to drill, and sometimes several fields were strung together in one night. The wine table was full of laughter and high spirits, ranging from the invasion of Iraq by the United States to the fact that the community health was not cleaned for many days, and finally the party broke up after drinking others or yourself. With the growth of age, busy work and sudden pressure, my personality has also changed. I don't like going to parties, but I pour myself two cups at dinner every night. She said that you used to go out for a big meal every few days, but now you stay at home and drink every day. I told her about the pressure I encountered, and she understood that besides, I would never go out and get drunk again, which is what I want.
Those incisive sentences circulating on the Internet, such as brother drinking is not wine, but loneliness, emptiness, complaints, stress and so on, are vivid and vivid. If you don't attend the party, fewer people will come into contact. Besides, you are a lone ranger at work. Sometimes I can't get a phone call all day. You just have to go home from work and pass by the small supermarket at the intersection. You go in and talk to the boss of good wine about what cheap and delicious wine is popular recently. You will weigh a bottle in your hand when you come out. When I meet an acquaintance and ask to buy a drink, I always answer with a smile.
I was very busy when I got home. I scrambled a stupid egg, cut the frozen meat, opened the wine bottle, poured it into my own little red wine glass, thought about all kinds of unsatisfactory places in my work and life, raised a faint azole, and blinked my lips with a spicy and fragrant taste, as if to swallow all the pressure. While drinking, I remembered an artist's curse: "Middle-aged dog." I think of my smiling face to my boss, my wry smile and helplessness to life.
Middle-aged people love to drink, just seeking a temporary emotional relief and dissolving all their troubles in wine. Sometimes I increase my courage by drinking wine. In fact, I have the courage to fight against fate.
Drinking sometimes makes me want to cry inexplicably, and even tears have been spinning in my eyes. When I looked up and took a sip of wine, I just held back my tears. A person is either dry or dead, so why are you crying?
Under the anesthesia of alcohol, I forgot all my troubles and fell asleep, waiting for another tense day.
A brother's "vulgar social vision"—
People get drunk in middle age.
When people reach middle age, drinking a cup and a half alone is good for killing time, comforting the soul or sighing helplessly. When people reach middle age, they are not confused, not confused about trivial matters, not confused about major events, not confused about the past and the future. ?
A small glass of wine is a good book when people reach middle age. After watching it again and again, they will know the taste. Without the freshness of words, the reception will be more vibrant and have no individual color, but the whole room will be more diffuse and there will be no unnecessary praise or criticism, but the world will be more frozen. In fact, when people reach middle age, they will hold their bottom line like light and strong wine. When people reach middle age, they will be like that thick sake.
Middle-aged people, a glass of wine is a good play, and you don't know the charm until you listen to it repeatedly. Less temptation of plot, more habitual patterns, less ups and downs of stories, more long wine rhyme, less vicissitudes of life, more sad tears. In fact, middle-aged people are as sweet and sour as this wine, and when they taste their own brew, middle-aged people are as obvious as this wine, hiding it without revealing it.
A glass of wine is a good poem when people reach middle age. Only by reciting it repeatedly can you know the taste. Without the rhythmic format, there will be more normal rambling, no restrained passion, but more hesitation, no pointing arrogance, but more subtle sadness. Middle-aged people are actually like drops of this wine, dreaming of their own glory. Middle age is like the flow of this wine.
When people reach middle age, it is not a small glass of wine that they can't afford to put down. There are still many eyes on you. You go forward and go a long way. Your plow is still in the heat wave of expectation. You can't help looking back. Your tears are still washing away yesterday's desolation, laughing and crying. Your mood is still worried about two short-lived things, drunkenness and waking up the sun. Your footsteps are still running on the road. ...
When people reach middle age, drink this little wine, for getting drunk tonight, for the first ray of sunshine tomorrow, for forgetting the dark clouds of the past, for soothing the sadness of that day, for your running on the road, for your tears at this time, drink this little wine and sleep with the laity.
Yes, people like to drink or white wine after middle age, which should be the hobby of middle-aged people, especially those who have experienced rough life and are "rich". I'm afraid the reasons lie in these aspects:
Drinking alcohol after middle age may be of great benefit to your health.
Beer is made of barley malt, hops, liquid paste, saccharification and liquid fermentation. Low alcohol content, lack of liquor aroma; Liquor is made from sorghum as the main raw material, Daqu, Xiaoqu or bran koji, yeast and other saccharifying and fermenting agents through soaking, steaming, saccharifying and fermenting, steaming and storing. The wine is clear, fragrant, long and mellow.
When people reach middle age, their blood tends to coagulate, their nerves tend to languish, and they sometimes feel unhappy. Many people, especially men, especially middle-aged people, first think of wine or white wine, or this wine is reliable and fast. Some people regard wine as a kind of dependence.
In the process of "conquering" liquor, he "interpreted" his own "story"
When people reach middle age, with the increase of age and life experience, some people's family burdens increase: some face unemployment, some elderly people need to take care of them, some children need to go to school or get married ... Some middle-aged people who live in the "gap" are deeply involved in the middle-aged crisis. I use wine to drown my sorrows, hoping to relieve stress and mental burden.
At first I only knew the smell of wine, but it was also spicy, slightly bitter and choking. After drinking for a long time, I am willing to be a rare "confused" person. The ups and downs of life, only when you have suffered enough, do you feel that only liquor is strong, but liquor "knows my heart". Smell it slowly, taste it carefully, drink it with a big mouth, and "drink" the fragrance of white wine between toasts to eliminate troubles and thoughts; Some people will be slightly drunk, or sobbing, or cursing, or talking to themselves. It is a kind of self-venting, narcissism and self-comfort, just seeking to release all depressed emotions and return to their true self. Only they can read their own stories.
Wine is the soul of middle-aged people.
When people were young, because of psychological, spiritual and physical reasons, they didn't know what fatigue and hardship were, but in middle age, after the constant baptism of life, they deeply realized the feeling of fatigue. Once upon a time, I subconsciously thought liquor was a "good medicine". So she collapsed on the bed without wearing dirty clothes, poured herself a glass of white wine and had a nice drink with her eyes narrowed. The feeling of relief came instantly, and that kind of comfort and coziness flowed from the mouth to the whole body.
Drinking tea, smoking cigarettes and drinking wine, the tired world is no longer boring, but also feels "gentle" a lot. It turns out that this white wine is the soul "Ubuntu" (a land of nothingness, the meaning of Xanadu), and white wine is the unique happiness in the middle-aged world.
On holidays, gatherings of friends and relatives, and even business entertainment, drinking is a feeling and an atmosphere; In life, every age group will have different ideas and actions, which can be reflected in drinking. When people reach middle age, they will be "old", and their bodies are really not as resistant and fighting as before. Don't fight with others, try to drink some good wine. A small amount of drinking should be good for your health, and your drinking habit will not change easily.
I also found that some people become fond of drinking after middle age.
When people reach middle age, their families, careers and jobs become more stable, and they want to drink some wine in their leisure time.
When I was a child, I seldom liked drinking alone. Young people like to get together with friends every once in a while and drink and brag together.
After getting married and having children, some family affairs such as taking children, sending children to school, and tutoring homework increase, and the number of gatherings with friends gradually decreases. It's often weekends. Let's get together with friends.
When we get together with friends, we are always happy, but it is inevitable that some friends drink too much every time. Drinking too much will make us feel uncomfortable, which will directly affect our mental state the next day and our work.
Therefore, after people reach middle age, their physical condition begins to decline slowly. The era of eating and drinking is over. Many people will give up some unnecessary entertainment, but they still want to drink, so they will choose to drink less at home on the premise of maintaining good health. A lot of people do.
I remember that when I was young (in my twenties), I never drank alone, only when I was with my friends. But then, I didn't drink much every time. Two people drank a kilo, four people drank two kilos, and talked while eating. After eating for a long time, my friends didn't pass out. Finally, they all got home safely.
I remember when I was in my thirties, I had more and more social activities. Not only friends, but also colleagues drink together. A friend of a friend introduced me to drink. At that time, not only everyone drank half a catty of wine, but also six or eight ounces. Because of the increase in the number of drinking and the amount of drinking, friends and colleagues have fainted in the flowers after drinking, fell down by bike, lost money and other things, and then drank every time.
Before and after I turned 40, I was confused and looked down on many things. It's meaningless to be dizzy today, and it will hurt your health, so I began to reduce the number of drinks. Although people often say "no friends without drinking", it was my friends for decades who helped and encouraged me when things really happened.
Now when people reach middle age, they give up a lot of meaningless entertainment. When you get together with old friends, you all know each other's drinking capacity, and you don't drink until you drink to a certain extent, and now old friends only get together once every ten days and a half months. Usually at home, if you want to drink some wine after cooking, just pour yourself a glass.
Generally speaking, many people will like drinking when they reach middle age and their families, careers and jobs are relatively stable.
Two or two per meal is good.
Friendly reminder: drink moderately, don't drink too much!
Life is not confused, and I like to drink alone. The main reason is experience. When I was young, I was used to making friends, looking for like-minded people and looking for opportunities. People who can drink freely and bravely, with the growth of age and countless readers, will feel that many bar entertainment is invalid, but the habit of drinking has always been maintained, so I drink alone! Drinking alone is just right, with smooth blood flow and an open mind. Therefore, it is impossible for literati to make poems and paintings after drinking! As for health, we can't generalize. How to use modern medicine to summarize the wine culture that has been passed down for thousands of years? There are many long-lived old people who drink and smoke! Living is a process. Drink as much as you want, and drink as much as you want.
A middle-aged man who likes to drink alone.
Some people become more and more fond of drinking after middle age. Why?
When I turned to this question, I thought for a long time. Do you want to go back to this question? Because I don't drink, I don't drink at all. I don't know why.
When I was young, I was sometimes very headstrong. At the reunion, I was advised to drink. I was fearless and drank. I still remember the first bite, and I knew very well that I would be drunk today. Now that I think about it, I didn't drink much then. At best, I was drunk and unconscious. My classmates are all worried about sending me to the hospital. I vaguely remember hanging the bottle all night.
After drinking wine, I feel uncomfortable in my stomach, low-paying jobs, want to vomit but can't, and retch. It hurts to think about it now. From then on, I was no longer willful and didn't drink at all. I clearly know that I am the kind of person who can't drink.
Some people become more and more fond of drinking after middle age. Why?
Although it is difficult for me to be the kind of person who can't drink, my classmates and friends around me have a certain degree of alcohol consumption, so I have seen many examples of people starting to drink after middle age. As the subject said, most people like drinking more and more after middle age. What is the reason? Let me talk about it first. What pleasure does drinking bring me?
1, the best state of drinking is slightly drunk, and the fashionable state is called slightly drunk, which may be the best state that most people pursue after drinking. In a slightly drunk state, people may become active, and alcohol stimulates blood circulation and makes people feel excited. Many times it can be understood that the greatest benefit of this state may be to give people courage;
2, looking for a kind of comfort, when the heart is unhappy, the baby's heart is bitter, but you can get drunk and solve thousands of worries. When you are happy, let everyone share your joy through drinking, which is a show-off, equivalent to a self-righteous ceremony. Pass it on through wine;
3, the dual needs of body and mind, because of habits, drinking makes the tired body relax, and the nervous mood is temporarily relaxed. At the same time, alcohol can promote blood circulation, fall asleep quickly and get a full rest;
We know what fun drinking can bring us. Let's talk about why people love drinking more and more after middle age.
1, I understand the word middle age, the so-called middle age, probably the grade should be around 45-55, we don't often say that people are not confused at 40, know their destiny at 50, and are old at 60. This kind of person, over 40 years old, has experienced a lot and has his own judgment. Most importantly, when people reach middle age, most people don't have too many troubles and things that confuse them.
2. At this stage of life, most middle-aged people live a stable life without much pressure, but there are also people who were born in Sri Lanka and need to work hard. Therefore, such a group of middle-aged people are only one step away from their own understanding of the road to success. At this time, they are under great pressure and need a little wine to relax themselves. This is a way to relax.
3, like, this truth is the simplest, from young to middle age, along the way, accompanied by wine, from getting drunk every night when I was young to being rational after middle age, drinking a little wine every day makes me happy every day;
Some people become more and more fond of drinking after middle age. Why?
Q: Some people like drinking more and more after middle age. Why?
Answer: Because wine is the water to balance emotions. When people reach middle age, social interaction becomes extremely rational, and the whole thinking system is on high alert. Long-term stress will make people's thinking chain very tired, and alcohol has a special effect of relieving fatigue. So some middle-aged people like to drink to treat themselves, not to seek excitement.
Under the pressure of life, middle-aged people are very sensitive to walking on thin ice and will unconsciously amplify the lethality of difficulties. This amplification of subjective speculation will lead to depression. According to the statistics of UNESCO, the proportion of middle-aged people who like drinking is much less than that of middle-aged people who don't like drinking. Many things you think are at the end of their tether will become clear after you wake up after drinking a little wine. Alcohol makes drinkers feel at home in life and plays an auxiliary role in diet and sleep. The feeling of stepping on the earth is like stepping on a sponge, which will make the bondage of excessive rationality return to the sensibility of normal people. The effect of wine on people's emotional balance lies in that it can make people who are too rational become emotional and make people who are too emotional become rational. I have met many people with bad temper. After drinking too much, they are modest, calm and self-reflective.
It is really common for some people to drink more and more after middle age, and there are many such people among my friends. On the other hand, some people drink less than before. When they were young, they drank too much wine. Now that I am in my forties, my impetuous heart has gradually calmed down. I am one of them, typing and writing.
For what reason, some people like drinking more and more, which varies from person to person, because' we are different, and everyone will have different circumstances', which is also sung in the song. It's different, but there are only a few things. Celebration wine is not much, sadness wine is much, and boring wine is much.
Standing at 30, not confused at 40. By middle age, most people have got married, and their children and old people are in the world. Sense of responsibility and physiological clock will make rational people calm and mature, bid farewell to youth and frivolous, and look down on the world life. As the pillar of the family, it is inevitable that he will encounter all kinds of troubles in earthly life, and the pressure brought about by it has to be propped up by him. Sometimes, I don't know who to tell my difficulties to, so some people will vent their grievances or solve their troubles by drinking. In fact, relieving stress and letting go of mood is better than taking medicine to treat insomnia, and proper social interaction is also indispensable.
Drinking not only has its own excuses or reasons, but also people who drink have different levels and styles. To be exact; Precisely
Li Bai is called the wine saint when he is drunk, but the name of ordinary people is incorrect when they are drunk.
The lewdness of heroes is romantic, and the lewdness of civilians is obscene.
In fact, debauchery is human nature, because Kou defeated!
Rich and poor people love wine, which relieves many worries for you. In history, many celebrities love to drown their sorrows by drinking, especially those who have no talent, or have a bumpy career and unpaid ambitions, so there is Cao Cao's drinking to drown his sorrows. What is life geometry? How to solve your worries? Only Du Kang "; Then there is Li Bai's "Enjoy a glass of wine while you are alive! Why is he famous behind his back? "When he is frustrated and drunk, he can" ride the wind and waves, and sometimes, straighten my yin sail and cross the deep sea under the bridge "in his dream. There is Yue Fei, who said, "Don't be idle, the boy is white-headed, empty and sad", but he drinks and doesn't eat pork.
It can be seen that all poets and heroes love wine, because they are more famous for their love of wine! Compared with these famous people who go down in history, we middle-aged ordinary people live a quiet and plain life. Some people have made achievements in their work or career, but they have to socialize because of work needs and interpersonal communication. It is inevitable that they drink too much, and some people will gradually become dependent on alcohol and will give up.
There are also some unfortunate family members and divorced people. Nowadays, the divorce rate is very high, and people without families always feel empty, lonely and cold. I have several such friends. As long as they are free, they just drink and drink. As a pond fish beside the city gate, I generally can't run away. Also, most people who are brave in righteousness commit suicide dogs, and those who are brave in righteousness also love wine. People are divided into groups, and it is easy to have a wine field. Long-term alcoholism makes some people addicted to alcohol and lose their self-discipline and self-control. Usually sober, I look at those indecent and even rude people, and I am speechless! Or sometimes I am the same, I just don't know!
Drinking can relieve anxiety, make friends, ruin a person's life, and also ruin a person's life. I've been tested by alcohol, especially. exactly,
Wine can succeed or fail, but money is flawed.
Life is true, not afraid of short time!
I don't think people become more and more fond of drinking in middle age! But I'm used to this way of life, because wine is also a part of life ... People who can drink it have been drinking it for twenty or thirty years, so it's impossible to forget it. ...