this question is not about the son, but about the parents!
first of all, if I (the respondent) want to earn adoption, I will definitely say that both my sons like it. Because even if you don't adopt it, the administrator will help.
I think, if parents are in this situation, it is estimated that their hearts are also very complicated. Because life has told them their way, their choice is wrong. So why are you biased towards a child? Since their partiality has become ordinary people, who knows if this will happen again? Will liking it better bring serious consequences? They must feel a little guilty about their second son. But is guilt what you said about liking it? About can't be mixed together.
When my son is old enough to get married, he is probably already open to everything. Good or bad, good or bad, let him go.
I want to analyze the results from here, but unfortunately I may have failed.
You said that the second son grew up better and better, and he was a successful man. That means he hasn't got a family yet. In principle, he is more successful, and it will be easier to find someone. Then why hasn't he got married yet?
If the second son keeps thinking about it, he will probably have trouble with his parents.
parents always tend to be obedient children.
maybe I prefer the first one. Maybe it's the first reaction brought by habit, but it will definitely feel strange.
forget it, let's go first.