Because on the Internet, there are not as many things to consider as in real life.
You can be attracted to the other person simply because his voice sounds nice; you can also be attracted to the other person simply because he can chat with you; or you can also be attracted to the other person because he is playing games. He tries his best to protect you, which makes you tempted.
For example: I like to play "Honor of Kings", but I am ashamed of myself for being a technical player. In the past, when playing games, I was almost used as a cash machine by the opponent, and was scolded by my teammates. This situation continues until now. No one can scold me, and no one can protect me.
Until one time, I met a little brother. When he saw the assassin on the other side chasing me, he chased that man for several towers and wanted to kill him. Whenever you see that person resurrected and taking the lead in any line, you will definitely beat him to death. When you get to the back, that person won't even be able to get out of the crystal.
Seriously!
At that moment, I felt that I was about to fall in love with his figure of killing one person in ten steps and leaving no trace behind. Although he never said a word to me from beginning to end, his actions , it really moved my heart. I feel like my whole body is excited, and my heartbeat has never skipped so fast!
Oh my god, a woman like me is being protected, I have such a girlish heart.
At that moment, I thought I loved him.
However, if this scene happened in real life and there was a person in front of me who helped me, I would be very grateful for his kindness. However, I may not necessarily fall in love with the other person.
Why?
Because I am a pretty girl, the person I can fall in love with at first sight does not necessarily have to be the most handsome, tallest, or best, but it must not be ugly, shorter than me, or less motivated than me, otherwise I will It’s really not love at first sight.
Furthermore, my brain will also scan the other person’s clothing and behavior, so as to rate the other person in my mind!
You see, it is so difficult to fall in love with someone in real life! There are too many things to consider, such as voice, height, clothing taste, behavior, and whether the other person has a partner.
Do you need to consider online dating?
Online dating is almost unnecessary! Maybe the other person's voice is so beautiful that it makes my ears pregnant, and I fall in love with him. As long as I don't show up, what does the other person look like and whether he has a partner or not? What does it have to do with me? Right!
The more things you have to consider, the harder it is to fall in love with someone. This is why so many people who fall in love online end up no longer in contact with each other. It starts with talent and ends with meeting.
The threshold for online dating is very low, and it only takes a moment to fall in love with someone. But real life is reality after all. It is difficult for you to fall in love with someone just because of a moment. Love at first sight, in the final analysis, only happens when the other person is handsome, tall, and well-dressed, right?