First, the three views are consistent (the view on making friends, the view on consumption, the view on career)

The most important thing for two people to get along is to have the same three views. This may not be seen in the early stages of love. , but you can see it after getting along for a while. For example, if two people go on a date to eat, you like to go to a large restaurant with good quality and think it is clean and safe, while he likes to go to a roadside stall and thinks it has an atmosphere and is cheap. This means that the consumption concept is different. You like to eat Haidilao, and he likes to eat Chuan Chuan Na on the street, so the two of you are definitely not suitable for each other.

The second is your career outlook. You work hard and constantly improve yourself, hoping that one day you can earn tens of thousands a month, but he thinks that it is enough to spend enough money, and he likes to play games every day and goof around. So the two people's career views are different. As time goes by, the distance between the two people will become wider and wider. The third is that they have different views on making friends. You don’t like his friends and think they are all unmotivated, but he doesn’t like your friends and thinks they all worship money. So, Such two people are definitely inappropriate.

Second, in love, two people are equal and need to respect each other

Many people often say, "In love, the one who is tempted first loses", "If you love someone, you will lose." People just want to lower themselves to the dust." These poisonous chicken soups have harmed many ignorant girls. True love should be evenly matched, two people are equal, two people work hard together to make money, two people do housework together, and they will discuss with each other no matter how big or small they encounter, and basically there will be no differences, even if there are differences , we will also discuss and resolve it. Some women put themselves in a weak position in marriage from the beginning, and such a marriage is destined to be unequal from the beginning.

Many people always like to flaunt how much they have sacrificed for love, but when you sacrifice, you should also ask the other person whether they accept or like your sacrifice, instead of blindly compromising and losing yourself completely in the end. The original appearance. When you love someone, you love them as they are. If they change beyond recognition, they are no longer the original person. Therefore, the most suitable two people are those who can bravely be themselves and live in harmony with each other. This is the most ideal form of love. Good look!