You shouldn't regard yourself as the head of the family. What should I regard as? How can I practice the precepts and become a Buddha? How can I become a Buddha? Regardless of the first concept: I am the head of the household, so you limit yourself. That's why I practice the precepts and don't consider being at home. I should consider what I should do. I want to do it, but I can't. I should work hard. Being at home today doesn't mean that I will always be at home. Although there are many obstacles at home, I try to overcome them. Practicing precepts at home is mainly to overcome problems and difficulties at home. This is "staying at home", not how to practice precepts at home. A layman should stay at home and use his family environment to cultivate himself. What is utilization rate? Do not follow the crowd, do not follow the crowd, this is called "living at home." I don't eat meat at home today. I don't want them to worry. I will eat it. No, I will eat some meat dishes, which I think is what householders should do. This is all incorrect. What do you mean by staying at home? That is to say, it is the reserve force of monks. If you want to become a monk, you must make up for it immediately. This is a stay at home. As the saying goes, all the people are soldiers, so you should be prepared to become a monk. A householder must first overcome all kinds of obstacles at home. For example, we can't do what many people in the world recognize (but it doesn't meet the requirements of Buddhism). Do it in the way of becoming a monk at home, so as to achieve it. Some people set their own standards and use the word "at home" to lower their standards very low. In fact, although you have lowered yourself and think you have done a good job, it has nothing to do with becoming a Buddha, but it is just a good law in the world. If you want to become a Buddha, you must overcome all the problems and habits at home to become a Buddha. I hope everyone can go back and seriously consider this, which is also very important. Don't miss the opportunity. Some people don't know how to practice after becoming monks. Why? When he was at home, he didn't make good use of the practices at home. If you know how to take care of your eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and mind at home, you know how to get rid of color, sound, fragrance, taste, touch, law, greed, anger and delusion. How to fight against this kind of violation of Buddhism at home, so that he can practice whether you are a monk or at home. Many people have lowered their home standards to a very low level. Although it meets everyone's wishes, everyone is very happy to hear it. But I said it's harmful to you, because it's not easy for the human body to live fast, and it's not easy to believe in Buddhism. I know, I believe in Buddhism very late, and I walk in front of the temple every day before studying Buddhism. I don't know. Go to the temple. I don't know. I have no idea. Karma came, and I realized that the temple was my home. At this time, everyone regretted it. We are Buddhists all our lives, so we must seize life. Although this karma is somewhat immature, we should try our best to make it mature. No matter where I am, I will practice according to Buddhism, I will concentrate on my eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and mind, and I will get rid of greed, anger and delusion. That's right. Don't separate becoming a monk from being at home. I have to practice at home like a monk. That's all. Therefore, lowering the standard is a good relief for everyone. Some people think that I have been practicing at home. Although I give you a reputation, it will be "changing cities" in the end. (It's not a "city change" in the square, it's a completely illusory "city change") It won't work. When you really want to get rid of life and death, it's a scam, just a scam, a deception. I don't think I want to be that kind of person, so I can only tell you this. (Text: Master of Fantasy)