Some people are very bad. If you know such people, they will make friends with you on the surface, but they are actually designing you behind your back, using you and even betraying you.
Therefore, whether you are looking for a friend or a partner, you must have a certain eye. You should understand that when you meet these three kinds of people, you should try to avoid them so as not to bring disaster.
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A villain is a person whose face is one thing and his back is another. They will never show their true colors when they face you. When he sees something useful in you, he will approach you, become your friend, and even help you for a pretence.
But when you are useless to him, he will even betray you and use you as a shield to block the knife. The mind of the villain is unpredictable, and you can never guess and see through it. The best way to meet such little people is to stay away from them. When they don't know you, they can't really use you.
Confucius said that only villains and women are difficult to raise. When you know that the other person is a villain, you must stay away.
A greedy person.
Secondly, when there are greedy people in your life, you should also learn to stay away from them. In the eyes of those who covet profits, what they see is always profits.
Maybe you take him very seriously and regard him as a bosom friend in life.
But in his heart, he won't value you so much. If he thinks it is profitable for you, then he will be good to you. I hope you can repay them later.
If they don't see any benefits in you, they will resolutely stop being friends with you and even stab you in the back. People who put interests first are never suitable to be friends, let alone business partners.
Because his mind is on interests, not friendship, they will put interests first in everything and even do whatever it takes to achieve their goals.
Interests are always the most attractive, and true friends are unmoved by interests. Only greedy people will go for an outing with interests as the center, and avoiding such people will bring you the best results.
Narrow-minded person
Secondly, learn to stay away from petty people in life. A narrow-minded person will haggle over everything. Make friends with such a person, you will become open-minded, unhappy because of his haggle over every ounce, and even feel that being with him will affect your mood.
In fact, people who can become true friends will not be petty to each other. You invite me to dinner today, and I'll pay you back tomorrow.
This is what friends should do. A petty person will always be as poor as a miser. In their eyes, there will never be a shed, only a gain. They think giving up one thing is like committing suicide.
Only those who stay away from petty family can broaden their minds. Make friends with a petty person, no matter how much you pay for him, he doesn't feel enough. He even takes your efforts for granted, and he should give up everything to get you as a good friend.
The most important thing in life is to learn how to go for an outing. A person's life is neither long nor short, but only by making real friends will you find that life is not so long nor so full.
Of course, making friends should first avoid villains, mercenary people and petty people. You won't step on thunder.