However, in recent years, campus violence has emerged one after another, but the place that should be full of laughter is secretly full of campus bullying.
Every child is a seedling and needs to be nurtured to thrive. If left unchecked, it will only grow in disorder.
What should children do if they encounter school violence?
1. negotiate with the perpetrators to delay time, and then seize the opportunity to escape or gain reasonable trust through negotiation.
Once you encounter campus violence and several girls or boys surround you, you should try to talk to them about the reasons for treating you like this or what you are going to do to you. Once the other party lets down their guard, you can take the opportunity to escape. If you are sure to impress them, try your best to gain their trust and try not to be violent.
Call for help or call the police when you see someone passing by.
When someone happens to pass by your residence, if you have a mobile phone, you must call for help or call the police in time. Bian Xiao hopes that if one day a child calls for help when passing by, he must lend a helping hand in time. This is their hope! In addition, be careful not to let the other party find out when calling the police.
3. Explain the situation to parents and school teachers and punish the perpetrators.
After the real violence, you must explain the situation to your parents and school teachers, and the school will punish the perpetrators. Never think about fighting violence with violence. That won't work. If the victims commit violence after learning from each other, what is the difference between them and the perpetrators?
4. Carry self-defense articles and alarms to prevent the perpetrators from retaliating.
Don't think too much after they are punished, but in order to prevent them from retaliating against you or isolating you in class, please don't care. Successful people are lonely.
How to avoid campus violence
1, walk together after school instead of taking the path.
The first way to avoid campus violence is not to be taunted and I can't afford to hide, at least to ensure my personal safety. Then I should go with my classmates after school. Try to take the school bus if you have a school bus, and pick it up if you have parents. Let's go together. Don't take shortcuts or anything. Be sure to avoid some potentially dangerous areas.
Don't go out with your classmates alone. Try to solve some problems in class.
If a classmate who doesn't know you very well asks you out during recess or after school, try not to go. What's the matter? Just solve it in the classroom before you go out. After all, the society is so chaotic, who knows whether it is a good person or a bad person who is looking for you, so as to minimize the possibility and it is impossible to treat you in class.
3. Dress ordinary, don't be competitive.
Today's children are basically self-centered, selfish, self-centered, and have their own experience in dressing up. Fortunately, schools now basically require to avoid wearing school uniforms, but not all schools wear school uniforms, so these children must be careful not to wear too high-profile, and don't compete with their classmates to save face for themselves and others.
4. Parents' education should be in place.
Family education is a major internal cause of campus violence. We can't completely deny parents' education, but at least their education is lacking. Many parents should get married when they get married and have children when they have children. They may care more about their children when they are young. Their children go to primary school and junior high school, and their main concern is learning. There is no denying that children study well, and basically other behaviors will not be bad, but is it really good to pay attention to children's learning blindly and not to their personality and psychological education?
5. School education and supervision should be strengthened.
Few people really use the psychological education courses and psychological chat rooms offered by schools. What schools need to do is to put psychological education into children's lives, so that children have a place to vent their feelings. In addition, since the school has established a campus of 1 10, it is necessary to implement supervision and inspection. If the school is well managed, it should spread to the surrounding areas of the school.