In fact, this is about the meeting of two extremes. It is right that people should pay attention to politeness in their communication, but too much attention will be affected, and too much attention will become a pressure on others and themselves. For example, if you associate with a person who has a good relationship, you must receive him in the best emotional state. You will feel false, and the other party will feel this situation, so that even the previous feelings will become alive. This is not an emotion. Similarly, you don't have to care too much about your good feelings. You're trying to make it grand. If it is, I will think it is showing off, or I have other desires, then I won't be able to bear it! However, if the other party has a strong vanity, it is another matter to need this kind of scene!