In our lives, what is difficult is actually not our work. What is difficult is learning how to interact with others?

Methods of interacting with people

1. When interacting with others, you must respect each other and let them finish their words

Interrupting carbon's words can easily cause The misunderstanding or dissatisfaction of the other party, as the saying goes, a wise man thinks first before speaking. A smart person will not force his words, but listen and consider before expressing his unique insights. This not only reflects a person's emotional intelligence, but also shows a person's emotional intelligence. Human cultivation

2. Speak more polite words

In the end, what depends on getting along with others is not appearance, but character, language and civilization, which is the best thing about a person. The business card of upbringing is that people who often talk about Xianxian are more affectionate, righteous, and emotional, and a word of "it doesn't matter" is the tolerance and open-mindedness that turns hostility into friendship. Respect is mutual. If you respect others, others will also respect you. So in our life and work, we should add more polite words.

3. When others laugh at themselves, you should praise them in turn instead of stepping on them

Many people like to use Use self-deprecation to resolve the dilemma. His behind-the-scenes purpose is to refute me and praise me, instead of asking you to mock me. So you have to see the form clearly, know the other person’s true intention, and learn to respond to others with a word of encouragement. Self-deprecation not only harmonizes the blood, but also warms people's hearts

4. Order generously at the dinner table, don't say casually

The details of ordering can tell a person's personality If your personality is pretentious and perfunctory, casual and easy-going on the surface, it actually gives people the feeling that you have no opinion, no stance, or even unwillingness to participate. Remember a social principle, never need to make a choice again. Remain silent, do not push the envelope, and do not reject generous people, which makes people more comfortable, easier to accept, and easier to remember

5. Don’t keep your head down and play with your mobile phone during gatherings and dinners.

Group activities are meant for everyone to participate together. If you keep your head down and playing with your mobile phone, it will make people feel that you are being forced to socialize, and it will also make other people feel that you are not taken care of well and feel embarrassed. Put down your mobile phone, communicate more with others, listen and participate more. This is a kind of courtesy, a kind of respect, and also a kind of integration

6. Never exchange secrets for one Friends

When you tell a secret to another person, it means that you have fallen into a passive situation in interpersonal communication. The friendship gained by the secret can only be built on the secret. Once the secret is no longer a secret, friendship will no longer be a secret. It will inevitably fall apart. If you try to exchange secrets for friendship, you can only get a lesson in the end, so you have to remember not to do similar things, hurt others, and hurt yourself