It is uncomfortable to have a rigid boyfriend. I think I probably don't like old-fashioned men because I prefer romance and fun. I don't like him being too old-fashioned. I hope he has more little surprises for me.

Many men who lack a sense of humor are rigid and depressed, and are not interested in other new knowledge in society except in the work field. They believe more in traditional values; they cannot understand or accept new concepts. He doesn't like the men around him to steal his limelight, and he thinks in a negative way when doing things. For more difficult problems, his attitude is often "it can't be done, it won't work", and he has no spirit of innovation and breakthrough.

My life experience with him is as follows:

"Don't you study enough? Why do you still go to retreats to study management and the like.", "Every time You have to go out every week, why don't you feel tired?" "I'm not giving you any restrictions, you should think about it, you don't make much money, why would you spend money like this on a trip to South Korea? Do you have the money to buy a house?”, “You will be criticized by others if you wear such revealing clothes. I won’t allow it.” “It’s not that I won’t accompany you to the class reunion. I don’t like any of you nuns.”

I have a classmate named Jiayin. Her life with her boyfriend Wang Ming is like this: Jiayin always feels depressed when she is with Wang Ming. Wang Ming is a person who likes to say "no" people. They went on an outing some time ago and fell asleep as soon as they arrived. They said they were too tired from working overtime the day before and just needed to catch up on some sleep. It was completely devoid of emotion.

Jiayin has no experience in love. When she was in the history department, a boy in her class had been dating her for two years. He was even more yin and yang than Ming. Jiayin is a very conscientious girl, and she just feels stable. , so I silently endured that geek from the history department. Later, people didn't want her anymore, which made her very angry, but she had to let her feelings go, and she was naturally good, so she took it lightly.

After graduating and working for several years, she was almost thirty years old. She still had no partner, and her family was very anxious, which made her very anxious. Relatives and friends introduced some men to her from time to time. In this way, she met Ming, who worked in a state agency. Being with Wang Ming was like a glass of boiled water at the beginning, but Jiayin himself was like a glass of boiled water, so everything felt like it was going to take its course.

Generally speaking, they were like other couples, they knew how to watch movies and go out to restaurants, and Wang Ming also kissed her clumsily. If you say he is dull, that's actually okay. He sometimes makes witty remarks, but I really can't find anything bad about them being together. Jiayin thought to herself: "Let's stay with this honest man who never seems to cheat!" Things are going in the direction of her wish, and Ming is also interested in marrying Jiayin.

However, after a year of dating, Jiayin felt that her heart was not at ease. She felt that Wang Ming was so rigid that even a submissive little girl like her could not stand it! Wang Ming not only has an eccentric personality, but also lacks enthusiasm for life. Many of the things Jiayin wants to do, he always pours cold water on her and does not encourage her to do them. He is extremely conservative, and he wants his girlfriend to be even more conservative than him; his life circle is pitifully small, and he doesn't like her to make friends; she likes to study, but he doesn't like her to pursue further studies.

Jiayin doesn’t know, but she just feels that she is still lonely along the way. She felt a desire to break free, because such thoughts were so strong that she began to understand a little bit why people cheat. Having a rigid boyfriend is really suffocating.