Many female friends may have a rigid prejudice against Chaoshan: Chaoshan people are terrible, and to have many children, you must have boys. Then you are wrong. We don't live for boys here now. Boys and girls are all the same, and even girls may be more popular with parents. Therefore, when communicating, if girls have doubts in this respect, they can also ask each other whether it is necessary to have boys first, and they will not have them until they have boys. ...
I don't think most Chaoshan families have this idea now.
A buddy found a foreign wife and gave birth to a daughter after marriage, but he and the little princess's grandparents love her very much and are also very kind to her sister-in-law. There is no problem of son preference.
If you associate with boys from other areas, they may take you to a big bowl to drink and eat meat, or take you to a coffee shop to enjoy the combination of coffee and music, but if you make friends with boys from Chaoshan, you may just go home for tea. Chaoshan people usually drink Fenghuang tea, which is a kind of oolong tea. There is the fragrance of tea, and there is a sweet feeling when drinking tea. It is a necessary etiquette for all Chaoshan people to welcome guests.
Of course, if you don't like it, you won't be forced to accept it. But if you get used to it, you will like it very much. ...
If you are a foodie, you will have a good time when you meet your boyfriend in Chaoshan. There are many special snacks in Chaoshan. If you are not local, your boyfriend will take you to eat all these snacks. If every meal is not heavy, it can be finished in ten days and a half if it is fast. If you are slow, you may not finish the food in a month. ...
From time to time, people from neighboring cities come to Chaoshan to eat delicious food.
Of course, you may also feel the "male chauvinism" of Chaoshan boyfriend. This kind of male chauvinism is reflected in every detail of daily life. When going out to eat, there is generally no AA system, and men pay the bill directly. Especially when the two sides are in contact, it is very normal and natural for men to pay the bill if the relationship has been determined.
Chaoshan men have an idea that I just want to make money and give my family a better life, so many people always think Chaoshan people are too hard. In fact, he is not a person, but a person to undertake the whole family. ...
Therefore, if you find a more authentic and qualified Chaoshan man, you may feel the warmth and reliability brought by this male chauvinism. Of course, there may be requirements for loyalty, ability and appearance. ...
But as far as my "foreign aunt" is concerned, she feels that she didn't choose the wrong boyfriend or marry the wrong husband. ...