Because my child is like this, he has separation anxiety and no friends from the beginning, so I also try my best to hope that the child can adapt to kindergarten and integrate into the group as soon as possible.
The teacher also helped to arrange a talkative child to sit with him, so those who have the same temperament can play together. The following methods are effective, you can try:
1, there is no need to rush home after school, because we are a community kindergarten and play with our classmates in the square. At first he didn't want to, but after a long time, he was willing to play among his classmates.
2. Let me buy a toy that my classmates play with, if the children haven't seen it. Then children will feel cool and willing to "show off" in front of their classmates, which will also bring them closer.
My classmate plays Altman, and I also bought him some cards and gold coins, although this is not my favorite range, as long as he can have fun with his classmates.
3. I found that when I chat with my classmate's mother, he will play for that classmate, or play downstairs for longer. I often envy him and say, how nice it is to have classmates and people to play with and share with.
4. The picture book How to Make Friends can be said to be a guide to making friends, which is very suitable for children who have obvious social needs but don't know how to interact with people.
How to make friends? We must know ourselves first, so that we can find friends who are more suitable for us.
Then the book uses a game multiple-choice method, and each step is a choice. When you are relatively friendly, you can make friends. If not, we will go back to the first step and start again.
My child is five years old. Recently, he likes to play this game every night before going to bed, and he will let me play with him because our routes are always different.
When we want to make friends with others, it is possible that they will ignore us at first, but it doesn't matter. We can try again. In real life, doesn't this happen often?
Say sorry when you make a mistake, say thank you when you get help, and speak your mind when you want to play with other people's things. Only when you have a good impression can you become a good friend.
The secret of making friends is actually to make others think that you want to be good friends with him.
At the end of the picture book, there is a form that we can fill in according to the actual situation. This is also a very interesting process to help us understand ourselves.
In fact, in the end, I still hope that my children will have one or two good friends when they go to school, not alone.
At an early age, children who have friends in kindergarten will be more willing to go to kindergarten and will be fatter. At best, a good friend is a lifelong treasure.
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I am Shuxiang in midsummer, the mother of a 5-year-old boy. I haven't read a book for ten years after graduation. Because of my children, I have regained my books and have been active in the field of parenting.
Here, there is no lofty parenting theory, just some sincere sharing since I became a mother; Being a mother for the first time has ups and downs, and every stroke is an account of myself in the past.
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