Character is fate, and a person's character can fundamentally determine a person's life situation. Some people are ordinary-looking, but good-natured, sunny, pessimistic, kind and sincere. When dealing with the relationship between men and women, they can always handle the relationship well and are deeply loved by people.
People are at different levels. As long as people at the same level are liked by everyone, my marriage problem will be easily solved.
If the character is bad, withdrawn, arrogant, or hypocritical, selfish, etc. , it will be out of place with people. Or don't want to be with others, or be alienated by others.
Some people think that men can't find a wife because they are poor, but I don't think so. It is difficult to find a woman with status or wealth in poverty, but it is still possible to find a woman with the same conditions as herself. For example, farmers find farmers, migrant workers find migrant workers and so on. Besides, women in ordinary villages dare not climb rich people. What really subdues a woman's heart is a man's personality and the way he treats people.
Others say that men can't find a wife because they are not handsome. Tall and handsome is a condition for a woman to choose a spouse, but this is only the requirement of a woman with high external conditions, and ordinary women do not have such high requirements. Men and women from strangers to acquaintances, to know each other, personality and character are the most important. If a man is not handsome or rich, but he is pessimistic, he takes the initiative to chat up girls, actively pursue girls, and then get along with them sincerely and friendly, girls will not crowd him out.
Judging from the phenomenon that many older boys can't find wives at present, most of the clever and glib boys have dealt with their own marriage problems, and some even went to college and became difficult families in marriage. The reason is that he is too honest, too rigid and too face-saving. As he grew older, he achieved nothing, from self-esteem to inferiority, and he felt ashamed to see his elders in Jiangdong. Even if you go on a blind date, it is stressful. If you can't let it go, it will often lead to a blind date.
Let's go back to the beginning of the article. Since "character is fate", if you want to change your destiny, start with changing your character! He who knows the times is a hero. Since girls like cheerful and pessimistic boys, why don't we let go of my constraints, rigidity and fear to cater to girls' choices?