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Does middle school students’ interactions with the opposite sex do more harm than good?

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Male: What is the warmest thing in life? Is it a winter fire? no.

Female: What is the most exciting thing in life? Is it a sweet singing voice? no.

Combined: It is friendship, it is pure friendship, it is warm friendship, it can melt the ice and snow, it can block the scorching sun. Now, the theme class meeting of our class has officially begun.

Male: A life without friendship is a barren life, a desolate life, like a land without green life, like a dead tree without branches, leaves and flowers.

Female: A life without friendship is a dark life and a monotonous life, so we long for sincere friendship and eternal friends to illuminate our lives.

One:

Please enjoy the poem "Boys and Girls in Our Class"

Boys and Girls in Our Class

Everyone They are all handsome enough

Hold your shoulders and go on the road

It’s so bold and elegant

Speak loudly and loudly

Even if it’s not hot Open your mind

Don’t talk about being elegant when arguing

It seems that the rougher you are

the more manly you look

However, once you are with a girl We walked together

We all became timid

As if we were stupid and stupid

We tried to pretend to be polite

In fact, we were not feeling well all over. Comfortable

Oh, it sounds so weird

The feeling of being a "two-faced person" is really unbearable

We all want to escape as quickly as possible

Girls in our class

Profess to be romantic

Talk about trends and fantasies

They all quarrel endlessly

In the small book Full of trendy songs

There is a wall of movie star photos posted on the bedside

I also shouted for Nicholas Tse at the performance venue

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Walking on the road

We talk a lot

Because we are only eighteen years old, and the sky of eighteen needs wonderful things

Friendship is like Water flows slowly through life

It does not make ripples, but it nourishes us

Dry nerves, a long road of life, true friends

May friendship be with me throughout my life, so that my emotions will never be thirsty

Let my soul never be lonely, and let friendship last forever

Male: The youthful heart needs friendship to water it

Female: Incomprehensible emotions require sincere understanding

Male: Interpersonal communication is an indispensable part of our lives, and the friendship between boys and girls has become an unavoidable topic

Two:

Female: Intellectual complementarity, emotional comfort, and behavioral encouragement have narrowed the distance between boys and girls, but the eyes of others and the interference of teachers have But this added a lot of trouble. Please enjoy the innocent friendship in the sitcom "Youth Station" below

Narration: This is a sketch about the normal interactions between male and female classmates. The story takes place before evening self-study one day. There are several students in the classroom. Some of the classmates were reading, some were doing homework, and some were lying on the table to rest... At this time, a sound from an unknown corner broke the silence of the classroom.

Skit 1

Chen: Hey! Why is it so difficult? The teacher is so inconsiderate of the students. They are all multiple-choice questions and true-false questions. What should I do? A kind and lovely student like me cannot be "wrong", "right", A, B, C, D. , choose randomly! What to do? I have to find someone to help me, (looks up at the classmates) Shan Bin, Shan Bin. . . . . . . . .

Shan: What’s going on?

Chen: I have something to ask you.

Single: yawn.

Chen: Come here quickly, I really need your help.

Shan: Why are you in such a hurry? It’s really annoying. I’m very sleepy. Really, like a bitch.

Chen: I can’t come to you if I have nothing to do. Isn’t it just for this test paper? It’s too difficult. Are you a master? I want to ask you to teach me.

Shan: Okay, who am I? The master among masters, known as the master, you have found me. (Look at the test paper) These are the questions, easy to do, easy to do (touch the pockets of the jacket, touch the pockets of the pants, repeated it several times, took out a dollar, and waved it in front of me) This is it, I guarantee you a true or false question. Do one question and answer one question, do two questions and answer a pair, and do three questions. . . . . . . . . . .

Chen: Okay, okay, stop talking and teach me how to do it?

Shan: You don’t understand this. I have a low IQ and there’s nothing I can do. Let me do it. Let me teach you, are there only “right” and “wrong” questions?

Chen: Yes.

Shan: Does money have only two sides?

Chen: Oh, are you saying that if you ask me to choose "right" if it's heads up, and "wrong" if it's tails down?

Shan: Boy, Confucianism can There is a future in teaching, let me give you a trial first! What is the first question?

Chen: One, an angle less than 90 degrees is an acute angle

Single: (throw the money up and cover it with your hand) Guess: right, wrong, right, wrong, right side Above, it can only explain one truth, this question is 100% correct. Just choose the right one.

Chen: Oh, what about the next question?

Single: Please take a look at the following question.

Chen: I'll do it, I'll do it, (accidentally threw the money on a boy's seat)

Jin: What is it? It came towards me and shocked me. It turned out to be a coin.

Chen: Hey, Jinpeng, that’s my money.

Jin: What are you doing? You are making so much noise. The money has flown to me. I want to pay it back to you

Chen: Thank you. (Jin Peng turned and walked away) Oh, By the way, have you done your homework?

Jin: What are you doing? Do you want to copy it? No.

Chen: No, no, you see, I have done it. I just can’t do a few questions and don’t understand them.

Jin: Then let me teach you. The first question should be like this. . . . . . . . . . .

Shan: I don’t understand you. If you want him to teach you, just copy it. If you want to listen, just listen to it yourself. I have to leave (Shan returns to his seat)

Jin: The evening self-study is about to begin. Let’s prepare first. I’ll teach you the next questions later.

Chen: OK.

Kim and Chen exit.

Narration: Shan Bin returned to his seat impatiently, looking around cautiously

He picked up a pen and paper and wrote a note to his good friend Yu. The content on the paper was "See you at the old place in Fushan Park on Sunday at 1:30 pm." Then he turned around and threw the written note to Yu.

The sky gradually darkened, jingle bell, the evening self-study was over, and the students left the classroom in twos and threes.

At 1:30 on Sunday afternoon, Shan Bin was anxiously waiting for Yu's arrival at the old place in Fushan Park, because today he was going to do something unexpected for her!

Skit 2

Yu: Hello!

Shan: I was shocked.

Yu: What are you doing? It’s mysterious, there are things that can’t be said in the classroom.

Shan: Yes. I have something very important to say to you today. . . . . . . . . . .today. . . . . . . . . .

Yu: What’s wrong with you? You speak hesitantly. This is not like your style.

Shan: I want to say, you are so beautiful today!

Yu: Is that why you came to me to talk about this?

Shan: No, I want to say that we have been good friends and talked about everything since junior high school. Now I seem to be a little bit into you. . . . . . . . that. . . . . . . . . . .

Yu: What is that? Tell me quickly. If you don’t tell me, I will leave.

Shan: No, I thought about it for several nights before I mustered up the courage to say to you, me. . . . . . . . . . I like you.

Yu: I'm sorry, I think I can't accept it. After all, we are still young.

Shan: Not young, not young. We are 18 years old and we are not children, right?

Yu: Yes, but I think we are more suitable to be friends. I hope we can still maintain the pure friendship before, care about each other in life, and help each other in study.

Shan: Okay, stop talking. You only know how to study. Have you ever thought about my feelings?

Yu: Okay, don’t be like this, I understand your intentions, I understand you, but if we interact too early and spend time on this, what will our classmates think of us, and what will the teacher think of us? What do you think of us? Have you ever thought about this?

Shan: I don’t care.

Yu: But, I care. I don’t want to see my classmates looking at me differently. If you really like me, please think about it for me. If we date now, will it be beneficial to us? ? We should now encourage each other and make progress together.

Shan: In this case, I won’t force you. For your sake, I accept it.

Three:

Male: After watching this sketch, we can’t help but think about whether there is friendship between male and female classmates, and whether the good impression of the opposite sex is love. Let’s talk about the intimate relationship between boys and girls. Debate whether the advantages outweigh the disadvantages or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

Chairman: Dear students and teachers. Friendship is the most precious wealth in the world. It cannot be stolen or transformed. Throughout the ages, how many people with lofty ideals have praised it, and how many people are willing to shed blood and sacrifice for it. Innocent friendship has left an unforgettable imprint in our beautiful youth years. However, there is a question lying there. Do you think that the advantages of intimate interaction between boys and girls outweigh the disadvantages? Or does it do more harm than good? Now, I officially announce the official start of this debate. Now we sincerely invite Mr. Bao from the Student Affairs Department to serve as a judge for this debate competition. Next, please introduce yourself to the representatives of the pros and cons:

Pro:

Lou: I am the pro-positive, my name is Lou Tengjiao

He: I am the pro-con. For the second debate, my name is He Lifeng

Li: I am the affirmative and the third debater, my name is Li Longhua

Contra:

Jin: I am the first defender and my name is Jin Peng

Tao: I am the second debater for the negative side, my name is Tao Jiaming

Yu: I am the third debater for the negative side, my name is Yu Danming

Chairman: Let me invite the first person from the affirmative side Representative Lou Tengjiao expressed his position.

Lou: Thank you, Chairman, teachers and classmates, hello everyone! Our point of view is that close contact between boys and girls does more harm than good. For those of us in school, too close a relationship between men and women will inevitably affect our studies!

Chairman: Thank you Lou Tengjiao for your speech. Now we ask the first representative of the opposition, Jin Peng, to state his position.

Jin: Thank you, Chairman. Hello everyone! Our point of view is that the advantages of a relationship between boys and girls outweigh the disadvantages. For example, in study, we can help each other and make progress together, which is more conducive to learning, and in life, we can take care of each other, why not?

Chairman: Thank you for your wonderful speeches from the pros and cons. Let’s move on to our free debate. Before the session begins, let me remind the representatives of both parties that your speeches are only for 3 minutes and will begin now.

He: We technical secondary school students are in adolescence, and our thoughts in all aspects are not mature enough. If boys and girls interact too closely and some emotional factors arise, the consequences will be disastrous.

Tao: I think that when the relationship between boys and girls complements each other, the harmonious relationship will have unexpected effects.

He: But now in technical secondary schools, there don’t seem to be many examples of people who can really grasp the degree and help each other?

Tao: Is the other party referring to puppy love? I personally think that this problem can be completely avoided as long as boys and girls interact appropriately with each other.

Li: Do we think the other debater can fully guarantee that every boy and girl will be so rational? There are countless examples of boys and girls being harmed due to excessive contact that turned into puppy love!

Yu: The reason why boys and girls are hurt by being in close contact is entirely due to their own reasons. We can’t deny the existence of friendship between men and women just because such a thing has happened, right? Give yourself and others a chance, don't be so sensitive all the time!

Lou: Puppy love itself is a sensitive topic!

Jin: But the relationship between girls is not necessarily just puppy love! We don’t need to treat “puppy love” specially. It is just a relationship between people who have similar interests and hobbies and become friends.

He: We always feel that if boys and girls interact too closely, although it will be helpful to both parties in some aspects, it is not good if it turns into puppy love accidentally. Okay, classmates, we are not allowed to take a wrong step in life. Regarding this issue, I think it is essential to be cautious and cautious!

Tao: Speaking of puppy love, I think that the feelings between boys and girls that arise from close contact are not necessarily love. There is a protective film there, as long as everyone is no longer in their youth. Come on, isn't it a different feeling to have such a hazy feeling?

Li: But how many sane teenagers are there? Didn’t stories that shouldn’t happen have already happened?

Yu: Boys and girls interact too closely. This is because they are misunderstood by the vague feelings between the opposite sex in adolescence, and some things that should not happen happen.

Chairman: Time is up. Now we ask representatives from both sides to summarize.

Li: Dear teachers and classmates, let me now represent our point of view: It is obvious that the harm of male-female interactions outweighs the benefits. Our debaters have just cited relevant examples, so when we interact with the opposite sex, we , when necessary, we should keep in mind the rules of communication between boys and girls, and never cross that line. We also look forward to the beautiful and innocent feelings between the opposite sex!

Yu: Now let me summarize our point of view. There are many benefits of close contact between boys and girls. In terms of learning, boys and girls exchange methods and ideas for thinking about problems and learn from each other, which will definitely be beneficial to each other's learning. Help, so we always believe that the advantages of intimate interaction between boys and girls outweigh the disadvantages!

Chairman: The debate is over. Let’s ask the judge, Mr. Bao, to comment

Student Office: (Teacher Bao’s comment...)

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Female: Some people say that if men and women get too close, there will be no friendship.

Male: No, we have many shy boys. I hope we can give them some tips on making friends.

Female: We have some introverted girls who are not proactive enough to find their own friends. They always watch people talking and laughing in silence.

Four:

Male: How can we clearly know that we have sincere friends? How do you know how good you are at making friends? Now let me tell you to write, and everyone can evaluate themselves. Based on their own actual situation, the answer will be 0 points for a negative answer and 1 point for a positive answer.

Start now -

1 In addition to your parents or siblings, do you have a close friend with whom you can talk to each other?

2 Do you have more than two old friends who have been friends for many years?

3Besides your peers, do you have any close friends?

4 When you encounter an accident, can you easily find a friend to help you solve the problem?

5 Do you go to your friend’s house once a week?

6 Do you miss your friends during holidays?

7 When a friend invites you to play, under normal circumstances, would you find some excuse to decline politely, such as "I'm too busy recently"?

8 When your friends encounter difficulties, will you take the initiative to express your concern?

9 Do you often keep in close contact with distant friends by calling or writing letters?

10Every time, do you add new friends?

11 Is your purpose in dating not to gain some convenience for yourself but purely to win friendship?

12 When you are busy and your friends come to visit, will you still warmly receive them?

13In addition to giving gifts, do you have more ways to enhance friendship?

14When you encounter misfortune or feel lonely, do you go out of the house and complain to your friends?

15. When a friend of the opposite sex invites you, do you go or not?

Male: Are all the students finished? good. Let me announce the judgment criteria. If the total score is 12 or above, it means you have a strong ability to make friends. A score of 9-11 indicates that you have good ability to make friends. A score of 6-8 means you can still maintain friendships with friends. A score below 5 means that your ability to make friends is still lacking, so you have to work hard!

Female: Now, students with a total score of 12 or above are asked to raise their hands. We congratulate them with warm applause and ask them for tips on making friends.

Li: Actually, there is no secret to making friends, and there is no secret. Because a person's life is inseparable from friendship, so making friends is a matter of course. There is no right or wrong, only appropriateness or inappropriateness. Under the eighteen-year-old sky, we are eager to make all kinds of friends, because only friends will go through ups and downs with you. Apart from your parents, they are your friends. As long as everyone maintains their beliefs, whether they are boys or girls, they can achieve success. Find pure friendship.

Xu: I think a friendship requires two people to maintain it. Of course, if you treat everyone around you sincerely, they will also treat you with a sincere heart. Friends often You will lose trust due to misunderstanding, and speaking your heart sincerely can not only eliminate the misunderstanding, but also deepen your friendship to a further level. When interacting with the opposite sex, do not exceed the boundaries of friendship, because in real life this There are many examples of this. If you fail to be a lover, you will become an enemy, so you must make good control of your interactions with friends of the opposite sex. Finally, I wish you all can find a sincere friendship. I have finished my speech, thank you!

Sun: I think making friends is mainly about trustworthiness. If you don’t keep trustworthiness, the other party will think that you are lying to him or playing tricks on him, giving people the feeling of being insincere and damaging your credibility. If the degree of depression decreases, it is easy for estrangement to occur. Brother Ma and Engels, these two great friends, have allowed people today to understand what true friendship is and what love is as perceived by the world. At the age of eighteen, we at the age of eighteen have had such noble friendships. Friendship? The answer is no, so why are there always situations where boys and girls have too close relationships? I think it may be the infinite temptation from the outside world and my own endless curiosity! This makes boys and girls of our age unable to control themselves, leading to some things that should not happen or even go against the grain. Friendship is like a flower that can always give you fragrance, but those insincere and immoral friends are like a hedgehog, which will only bring pain and sadness, and memories that are difficult to cover up.

He: There is no secret to making friends. As long as you understand the meaning of making friends and the true meaning of friendship, you can make friends.

Friends need to be sincere. The American writer Rogers said: "Sincerity is the basis for people to communicate and contact, and it is also the prerequisite for people to establish friendly relationships." Treating people sincerely will make you popular. You must use an optimistic mood to manage interpersonal relationships. Friendship is very precious. Hundreds of years of passing by each other have resulted in acquaintances in this life. We must carefully care for the flowers of friendship and make the friendship last. I think as long as we can be sincere in our interactions, friends will naturally There are more.

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