The Influence of Divorce on Women
1. Divorce has a greater impact on women's heart health: A survey of 9,500 people at the University of Texas in the United States found that at the age of 60, 33% of divorced women suffered from cardiovascular diseases, and the prevalence rate of unmarried women was 2 1.5%. Divorce has a greater impact on women after the age of 40, because at this time, the estrogen level in women's bodies that protects their hearts begins to decline.
2. Divorce makes men more prone to depression: the probability of mental illness for divorced or separated men will increase by 10 times, and that for women will increase by 5 times. This is mainly because men's ability to express and vent their emotions is weaker than that of women.
3. High incidence of Alzheimer's disease after divorce: Swedish research found that the risk of divorced men suffering from Alzheimer's disease is three times higher than that of ordinary people. This may be related to the lack of social activities and communication.
4. The life span of divorced people is short: even if the divorce time is short, the life span will be shortened by three years. This effect is more prominent in men.
Reasons for the rising divorce rate of women
1. Everyone is busy and no longer pays attention to others.
Everyone is busy with their own affairs, gossip is getting less and less, and there is no time to care about how others are doing. Now living in a high-rise building, I don't even know the people who live opposite, so I can ignore other people's divorce. Without such gossip, women are much bolder.
2. Simple procedures
There are many divorced people now. In the civil affairs department, personality discord and emotional breakdown can be solved after three or two times, which is very simple. But in the past, the staff would ask questions and try their best to adjust the contradiction between husband and wife. Most people will be dismissed by mediators. In fact, many divorces are because both of them are angry. As long as you give them some time to calm down and enlighten them a little, many marriages can continue to live happily.
3. The progress of science and technology and the shortage of men and women.
It's easy to find a boyfriend after divorce. Countless dating websites, dating websites and social software can all be started again. At present, the ratio between men and women is unbalanced, and there are more male stars than female stars. As long as a woman is willing to marry, there is nothing she can't marry. They are only afraid of men, men who can't marry, and women who can't marry. Therefore, divorce can be said to have no worries for women.
4. Sexual openness
Now cheating has become a common phenomenon, and the degree of sexual openness has been greatly improved. There will never be any previous feudal thoughts. I don't know what it is for a long time. In addition, the emergence of some social software characterized by making friends has provided convenience for those who cheat. Greeting is a simple word. Is it a date? The answer is also simple, about. It's over. And people are selfish. Only state officials are allowed to set fire and only allow themselves to derail, but they cannot tolerate each other's derailment. Once you cheat, divorce becomes inevitable. Please remember.
5. Economic independence
Now most women have their own careers, and their jobs and incomes are relatively stable. They don't need to look at men's faces anymore. Even after divorce, they still have income to support their living expenses. If they rely entirely on men's income, they dare not divorce easily. What will they eat once divorced? Where do you live? Therefore, economic independence is also one of the reasons for daring to divorce.
Why are there more and more divorced young people?
1. Children's troubles
After living together, after running in, I feel more and more that I am not suitable for the other half, and I will regret my original marriage decision. In big cities, the salary of husband and wife may be just enough to support two people. To repay the mortgage and car loan, these two loans are enough to crush the husband and wife. Maybe the old man doesn't have enough money. The baby is born and needs milk powder. When the child grows up, she has to be sent to various interest classes. These also cost a lot of money. It costs a lot of money to raise a child from birth to growth.
2. Take care of your career
Now, both boys and girls are very enterprising. Generally, men in their thirties don't want to get married, let alone have children, because their careers have not been successful, and this is a rising period of their careers. Women, on the other hand, become housewives after marriage and having children. However, girls generally don't want to get a firm foothold in their careers and have to go home to be housewives. As for men, the age of psychological maturity is older than their real age. You see, many men in their thirties are actually like children, and their playfulness has not recovered. Giving birth to a child is to trap yourself at home, which is actually very annoying to them.
3. Be free.
Today, most couples were born in the 1990s. In the words of the old people, they were born in the best times in China, and their thoughts naturally progressed with the development of the times. Many people like freedom. As the saying goes, life is precious and love is more expensive. If it's for freedom, you can throw both away. Freedom is the most important thing for them. Marriage is not what it used to be. Once married, it is a lifetime. Now there are many divorces, the divorce rate is so high, marriage is not so important, and many things can't be done after marriage, so they feel that marriage is not good, which makes them more and more dissatisfied with marriage and regret why they got married in the first place. The more I regret it, the more I want a divorce.
What kind of marriage is the most dangerous?
1. They are full of confusion about their future life, and the husband and wife often talk about divorce.
The husband and wife have no hope for the future, and their every move shows one thing. They are tired of this relationship, "I don't want to live any longer", "I've had enough of this life" and "divorce!" Many extreme words, such as eating and drinking water, are said without scruple.
Apart from the topic about children, the couple didn't communicate at all.
Couples basically don't talk about anything except children. It may not be that I don't want to divorce, but I am afraid that the disintegration of the family will affect the growth of children.
The husband and wife are incompatible with each other and even hate going home.
The husband doesn't want to stay at home when his wife is at home. He would rather go out drinking with his buddies all night than go home to accompany his wife. On the other hand, my wife feels the same way. I'd rather hang out than stay at home, or maybe the atmosphere at home is too depressing.
4. The distance between them gradually drifted away, and they simply separated from sleeping in separate beds until the end.
The physical and mental distance between two people is gradually drifting away. At first, I slept in separate beds, and then the contradiction gradually expanded. Finally, they separated further, and neither of them wanted to see each other again. What is the difference between this and divorce?
They don't care about each other anymore, or even the life and death of the other half.
Husband and wife are independent and ignore each other, and the other half is depressed, sick, angry and so on! It has nothing to do with yourself and completely pretends not to know. It can even be said that the life and death of a partner have been ignored.