In the book "Fortress Besieged", Su Wenwan has been criticized by the world, but she is real enough. In contemporary times, she is definitely a white, rich, beautiful, fair-boned, and highly educated woman. She is a model for modern women to learn from. ?
For the character Fang Hongjian in the book, Su Wenwan is a smart, talented, arrogant, scheming, self-centered older woman. She is also a very suitable candidate to be his girlfriend, but in In his mind, she is definitely not someone he would choose for a relationship or future wife in the future. Even many readers also think that Su Wenwan's character is unlikable. From his disdain for Mrs. Sun on the ship back to China, his dislike of children, to his disdain for Fang Hongjian in college, to his sudden development of Fang Hongjian after he became a female doctor. He lowered his stature and favored her, in order to give an explanation to his older female doctor, and later commented on Tang Xiaofu to Fang Hongjian - "she has a lot of friends", and Tang Xiaofu's "unbearable past history" to alienate Fang Hongjian. , "Miss Bao" series of stories... and other events. Su Wenwan, a character who appears from the beginning and appears throughout the whole story, is the link between most characters. I would like to say that she is real enough and in line with the ordinary characters in modern society. Her doctorate is not a fake degree like Fang Hongjian's, a doctorate from "Clyden University" hand-purchased from an Irishman. She is a real doctor who goes to school, writes papers, and writes poems. , let’s not talk about whether she was excellent in all her homework during school, but her schooling experience is the most real and worthy of verification.
On the contrary, Fang Hongjian transferred schools several times until he finally failed to get a real degree, let alone a thesis. When Su Wenwan and Cao Yuanlang discussed new poetry, he mentioned his study experience abroad and his thesis. When choosing a topic, no matter whether Fang Hongjian is disdainful or has a sour grape mentality, if it is result-oriented, and regardless of whether Su Wenwan's poetry level is high or not, she can withstand the test. On the other hand, Fang Hongjian went to Sanlu University to apply for a job because of Zhao Xinmei's recommendation. After resigning from Sanlu University, his income was lower than that of Sun Roujia. In the end, it was Zhao Xinmei's recommendation that he went to Chongqing to make a living. Faced with the useless marriage life, he would not solve it. On the contrary, problems can only be avoided, and none of the actual problems can be solved. Worrying about his livelihood, constant quarrels, unsatisfactory work, relying on the help of friends to survive on all kinds of trivial things, and finally running away from home can be regarded as Zhao Xinmei's rescue.
In modern times, Su Wenwan is definitely an elite woman with three high standards, a high-quality white-bone essence. If everyone uses Tang Xiaofu's standards to require women to be simple, smart, and clever, then what's the point of having a female personality that is the same for everyone. Isn’t it good to respect everyone’s differences and seek common ground while reserving differences? Moreover, Su Wenwan lived a very happy life after marriage. He learned to invest and manage money, resell jewelry, and even advised Zhao Xinmei's mother to manage money. This was completely in line with a married person's considerations about real life. She did not do anything that violated moral ethics, but was more practical. On the other hand, Sun Roujia and Fang Hongjian, aren't they practical enough? They quarreled over losing their jobs, quarreled over the fact that each other's relatives looked down on each other's family background, and quarreled over having no money to make a living. They were nothing like feathers in the world; when it came to managing their marriage, Su Wenwan and Cao Yuanlang lived happily, while Fang Hongjian and Sun Roujia's marriage had already cracked. Now...doesn’t their family life have any shadow of ours in reality? And what kind of life do we want ourselves to live?
Zhao Xinmei admired Su Wenwan, and even the Mrs. Wang he admired also had her shadow. She was beautiful, elegant, cultured, noble, and Zhao Xinmei's standards for choosing a mate were all of this type. Because Su Wenwan had no chance to defend himself in the book, it happened that Zhao Xinmei had favored him for more than ten years, which finally gave Su Wenwan a little bit of affirmation in the book. Zhao Xinmei was also a character loved by everyone. He was righteous, well-connected, and capable. A diamond man who is strong, affectionate and experienced. With this indirect connection, the character Su Wenwan feels a little proud.
Tang Xiaofu is a very lovable character. I can tell that she is a bit white. Anyone who has not experienced the hardships of the world during college (Tang Xiaofu was studying in Peking at the time) will not have such a character, pure and simple. , cute, clever, and unpretentious.
If she has experienced social relationships, work, marriage, and the trivial life, at best, if she learns investment, financial management, and marriage management, there is no guarantee that she will not be the second Su Wenwan; at worst, if she worries about her livelihood, her work and life will be useless. There is no guarantee that she is not the second Sun Roujia, and besides, she has not studied abroad or obtained a doctorate degree. This is just that she retained the beauty of a young girl when she was a student. No one can tell what Tang Xiaofu will be like in the future. There is no need to compare her, a student who has not left school, with the intellectual woman, the mature Su Wenwan. p>
Some people may say that Su Wenwan has a good family background and has extensive and high-quality connections. For example, he is a family friend with Zhao Xinmei, and is married to Sixi Wanzi Cao Yuanlang, and the Cao family has strong economic strength. But Fang Hongjian or perhaps Other colleagues are from far away families, so I want to say that Han Xueyu and Fang Hongjian both graduated from Clayton University. So at least they have the financial strength to study abroad. Why didn't they study with concentration for a few years during their studies abroad and specialize? If you study in one direction or several directions, you won’t end up buying a doctorate degree and going back to China to fool your family or colleagues a few years later, let alone not being able to find a good job in China. I believe that if you are really talented during your Ph.D. studies abroad, After a few years of practical study, many olive branches will be extended to you when you return to China. You will not fall into the situation where Han Xueyu was anxious and secretive all day long and Fang Hongjian was hard to find a job. It seems that I didn’t work hard enough, and I also had a sour grapes mentality, and despised other people’s literary talents. In today’s society, there are many rich and elite people who are not self-made and come from poor families. Compared to Fang Hongjian, they are still far behind.
Su Wenwan lived a real enough life and studied seriously. She was a typical senior intellectual woman, independent and shrewd, good at managing marriages, and learned to invest and manage money for life. In contrast, Fang Hongjian in the book is hypocritical, useless, and a visionary who lacks action. , can't solve the problem, Li Meiting, Gao Songnian and others are so sophisticated; Su Wenwan is more of a model for modern women to learn from, a model of modern whiteness, wealth and beauty. Her family is rich but not degenerate into vulgarity, she is beautiful and keeps pace with the times. Don't criticize Su Wenwan, Her abilities are beyond your reach!