For example, once a boy liked me and chased me for half a year. It stands to reason that a girl who is kind to her will gradually like that boy because she is moved, so many girls will say that I like him because he is kind to me, so I want to marry him, even if he has nothing, but he is kind to me.
However, this boy pursued me for half a year, and I was really not moved at all. On the contrary, I am annoyed to see him, because he really doesn't know the inside story, which often makes people feel annoyed.
In my opinion, being well informed means judging people's faces and being reasonable. This boy is not. He has probably never been in love, and then he has one track mind. At that time, we all worked in dormitories, but there were three people in a dormitory. Boys live on the third floor and girls live on the second floor. At that time, he came to our dormitory to chat every day.
To tell the truth, it doesn't matter if you can talk and chat, but this boy doesn't talk much, and then he doesn't talk much in our dormitory, so he just sits there watching us. Girls' dormitory, how dare you sit for two hours? It bores us to death every day.
Finally, we simply closed the dormitory door, then turned off the lights and pretended that no one was there. As a result, this boy is still waiting at the gate of our dormitory. It was really painful during that time, and because of him, my dormitory often talked about me, which was really annoying.
Then he called me at the department from time to time. It's nothing to talk to me, because he knows I won't answer the phone, so he can only call the department switchboard and transfer it to me. At that time, the most annoying person every day was really this person. Sometimes like a person, not all by their own preferences, but by the preferences of others.