Huanhuan deliberately bullied Mi Tao. How should parents guide their children to develop correct friendships?

1. Teach children to analyze the root causes of problems. When conflicts occur between children, they first want to be trusted by adults. Moreover, I think I am very reasonable. At this time, parents of children must not follow others’ opinions and favor their children, but must carefully understand the reasons for conflicts between children. Help children recognize where the problem lies and then solve it on their own.

2. Parents generally hope that their children will make friends with both good character and academic performance, but in fact, children do not know how to distinguish between them. Parents should not force their children to cut off contact with children with bad behaviors. Instead, they should guide their children and let them distinguish by themselves what kind of friendship is worthwhile and what kind of friendship is not.

3. Let children face conflicts on their own. After a conflict occurs between classmates, most children are unwilling to face and resolve the conflict. Some tell adults and teachers that they hope to resolve it. There are also people who take evasive measures. If you cannot teach your children to face and solve problems bravely at this time, it will be easy for them to indulge in the habit of instinctively looking for parents or teachers to solve problems when they encounter difficulties or troubles. At this time, adults should actively encourage children to try to solve it and use it more often? Do you have any good ideas? ?What do you think you should do? ? Wait for questions to make children feel that they have the right and responsibility to think about how to solve their own problems. Solving problems will make him more confident. Next time, he will have the courage to deal with the conflict with the children by himself.

4. Teach children to expand their contacts through interests: If children have some specialties, it will increase their self-confidence and provide them with opportunities to make new friends. Friendship is based on having the same interests. If your child doesn't have many friends, develop a wide range of interests. In this way, friendships between friends can be established while participating in similar activities.

5. Help children expand their circle of friends: Today’s children are all only children, and they are usually alone when they return home. A child can enhance friendship only if he is often with his friends. Therefore, parents should help their children make friends, such as interacting more with neighbors, inviting children to play at home, taking their children to play in parks near home, and interacting with relatives who have children of the same age.