Inexplicably a little sad, I turned to my boyfriend and said that I seem to have no friends now.
"It doesn't matter, you still have me! Besides, you are not without friends, but you have lost some contact with your former friends ... "
There may or may not be contact in the future, and new friends will be made.
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I don't have any friends.
Of course I know this, but I don't mean the concept of no friends, but the lack of existence in life.
Having classes together like that, staying up late to catch the play together like that, let me understand what I said in seconds.
I don't remember who said it: your best friends in life are all in high school. After this time, there are very few friends you want to talk to.
I didn't understand it before, but now I seem to understand it.
Even the best friends may part one day. Especially those friends who later traveled to different corners of the world, because they lived in different cities and had different life trajectories, they were scattered all over the world and each had its own future.
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The communicative state of modern people: quick understanding and quick indifference
I forget when it started. No one can mention it except my colleagues who need to deal with each other every day.
Perhaps the best friend in life was when I was a student, but now ... I have failed a little, and such a friend seems to be nowhere to be found.
Some people say that the communication state of modern young people can be summarized in a few words: rapid acquaintance and rapid indifference.
It seems to be true. People who seem to have a good chat don't know who they will meet next second.
Perhaps because of this, most people choose to communicate with masks. Just as some people like to show themselves selectively, those who don't want to be seen hide well.
I don't know if this phenomenon is good or bad, but after a long time, it seems that not many people are willing to spend time to maintain a new relationship. It may not be important, but everyone will be a little scared!
Some relationships, even if they feel that they have met each other late, will come to an abrupt end. Why? Because there are too many opportunities to meet late in this world, just like people who meet by chance at parties or group chats, but it is impossible to meet again.
Maybe there's nothing wrong with letting the relationship stop at a deep friendship. After all, not everyone can accept your past and not everyone will be interested in it. Therefore, some relationships are cold, so let it be!
How to choose the communication state is what you want. Since we are both willing, why ask so much? Let nature take its course, not demanding, not embarrassed, maybe it is the best state for us to negotiate with others.
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Friends have been together all their lives, and those days are gone.
It is said that those days are gone, how can we be together all our lives?
I want to contact some friends and talk about what I want to say. However, after reading the address book for a long time, I don't know who to look for. ...
Even the friend who used to exchange clothes has been talking for a year. At the thought of contacting each other, she may be a little surprised or busy with her own affairs. Finally, forget it!
Everyone may be busy, so forget it.
Anyway, they are used to it, used to not contacting each other, used to silently fading out each other's lives, and used to living their own lives slowly. It doesn't matter if you don't contact. After all, everyone has their own life.
It's nobody's fault that everything becomes speechless. Therefore, there is nothing to be sad or melancholy. Because it is the most important thing to live a good life.
Friends, if you can't walk together for a lifetime, then bless each other! I wish you all the best in the world.
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How did we become strangers?
Maybe everyone has their own reasons, but the alienation of a relationship doesn't have to have any reasons.
Maybe it's just because: time is passing and we are moving forward.
It's just that we can't have the same goal and the same direction we want to go. Therefore, the Tao is different and cannot continue to accompany.
It doesn't matter! It is the first time for everyone to encounter such a situation, to make friends for the first time, to move towards the future we want for the first time, to lose friends slowly for the first time, and to have no experience for the first time. ...
Without experience, you can only go one step at a time. Without experience, we don't know how we became like this. Without experience, we don't know how to maintain certain relationships. Even we don't know if those people are really important.
Looking at the progress of time, we also follow the progress of time. In the infinity of time, we quietly change and are changed, and all conscious and unconscious things happen like that.
Of course, we sometimes miss the past and long for business as usual. But what we don't know is that impermanence is the greatest truth in this world.
We've changed. We are no longer strangers as before, and we don't know whether to greet politely or frolic as usual.
Some people say that the more you grow up, the more lonely you get. Nowadays, it is really impossible to deny some facts, but this is not the price of our growth, but the truth that growth has given us.
Growth makes us cautious, growth makes us passive to Nuo Nuo, and growth makes us slowly bury our true feelings in our hearts and secretly hide them.
Of course, this may only be the fate of some people. But who can escape this rule: when you grow up, you will inevitably lose some friends?
On the surface, we are all people who live a wonderful life. There is wine, meat and friends to eat, but how much sincerity can we show to negotiate with people in that kind of social interaction?
You may be the most active person in group chat, but you may be the one who has nothing to say in private.
Because of what? Who knows?
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What's it like not to go back?
I've seen this discussion on the Internet-what's it like not to go back?
This feeling of never coming back is not only between lovers who have no chance to continue, but also among many friends.
Some people say: when old friends meet, they are embarrassed. Talking about each other's current life always feels out of place, but talking about the past and the past is a bit vague. In the end, I didn't say anything I wanted to say, and all I said was a lie.
Do you think you can't go back when you grow up?
Maybe we realize that this loss is not a good thing, and we may even complain, but even so, most of us have no choice.
Who are you blaming? No matter whose fault it is, it can't change the change of reality, the thinness of human feelings and the gap in life, and we can't make a decision ourselves.
Different roads lead to no common goal, and everyone has their own future and the way they want to go. Therefore, even if you can't be a colleague, being a stranger who no longer greets you is another kind of fulfillment for each other.
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No one is wrong.
There are fewer and fewer people around, and occasionally there will be some lonely feelings, but one can also try to make oneself happy.
At least the memory is still there. Even if some memories are blurred, I don't think there is anything wrong, because some beautiful things remain.
Without friends, friends can't continue to walk together, and friends become strangers. However, there is nothing wrong with friends, and we have done nothing wrong.
Because, we are just on the road of life, and everyone has chosen the way they want to go, that's all!
Don't be sad if you can't go back. People in the future will live a long life, smile and wave, respect the past and never look back, and go forward bravely.