If you want to gain good popularity and win a person's sincerity, then you have to consider yourself and know how to operate. In all relationships, they are mutual. If one party invests and the other party only knows how to take, such a relationship will not last long. Therefore, when dealing with people, you should remember these three points, which are good for your life.
1, remember that the benefits of others are actually in this world, that is, the confrontation between people. Some things cannot be ignored, that is, people's hearts. In this world, feelings can't stand consumption. No matter friendship, true feelings or feelings, they can't stand scrutiny. People's hearts are not terrible, what is more terrible is that they have been hurt all the time. Most people treat the people around them sincerely at first, and often change later. More importantly, after all, a relationship has been damaged, which leads to his lack of sincerity. If you want to get a person's sincerity, you have to treat others sincerely, be kind to a person, and don't always think about interests.
If you have been kind to someone just to make him remember you, this kind of investment is meaningless. You can't care too much about feelings. If you treat someone sincerely, the other person will certainly remember your benefits, but if you always haggle over every ounce, it is very likely that others will not understand your feelings. Giving and loving in the true sense should be selfless. If you are really kind to a person, then the other person will remember your friendship. Remember that investment is never one-sided. You know my contribution, and I know your gratitude. Only in this way can the relationship last.
2. Look at people according to their strengths. In this world, everyone has shortcomings, and no one is born perfect. But we can't completely deny a person because of his shortcomings, look at people or know how to look at the long term. No one will want to get along with you if you just cling to each other's shortcomings. Remember, in the eyes of a thousand people, there are a thousand Hamlets. At any moment, your prejudice may hurt a person. After all, everyone looks at people from different angles, and your attitude is directly related to a person's attitude towards you.
After all, you can be honest with others when dealing with them. When you see others, think about yourself, and you will probably be balanced. If a person always grasps each other's shortcomings, in fact, such a person is lacking in his heart, and no one wants to get along with such a person. After all, making friends is the follow-up contacts and resources. Knowing how to appreciate a person can make a person. Remembering the evil of others will eventually harm yourself, and remembering the good of others may help you. People who are good at judging people's strengths, of course, the world will be more tolerant of you.
Helping others to get along with people in trouble is actually a process of taking care of each other. In this world, many things are impossible to speculate. You don't know what will happen in the future, and you don't know what the other person will do for you in the future. In this case, when the other person is in trouble, you lend a helping hand. Of course, if you need it, he will help you. Remember, affection and love are almost mutual. How you treat a person, the other person will treat you. Man is like this, he will understand the pros and cons of good and evil, and whoever is great to him will certainly appreciate you when you have to.
Everyone thinks it's easier to make the finishing point than to send charcoal in the snow. When a person is proud of his life, you help him, and she may not remember you. But when you are in trouble, if you help him, he will remember your friendship. Everyone has difficulties, as long as you are. At this time, if you help others, he will help himself if you need it. Helping others is actually saving yourself invisibly. The help you give others will come back to you one day, because I am doing it for everyone, and my hands are fragrant.