When I first touched this drama, what I really hated was Fang Yifan, a child who was a senior in high school. He was so playful, had no idea about the situation, was naughty and made trouble, and his mouth was extremely poor. It really failed to arouse my goodwill and attention to him. However, since Lin Leier came, many things have happened to him, which has gradually brought this role to life. I really understand that Fang Yifan has many advantages. Although he is still loquacious and makes mistakes, his deep emotional intelligence is really admirable. First, Fang Yifan has strong self-awareness and acceptance ability
Fang Yifan especially hates that parents compare themselves with other children, and firmly believes that everyone pays attention to this key point when they are chasing dramas. Every time I compare them, he is extremely resistant. Why? Because my exam results are no matter how bad, that's my exam results, that is, I earned them diligently. Everyone's objective analysis and objective comments compare me with Lei Er, Eiko and Wang Yidi.
What's more, Fang Yifan clearly told his little friends every time: I am not the material for studying. When I see the professional knowledge in the book, I feel sleepy and have no enthusiasm, so I can't concentrate on it. It is natural that I didn't do well in the exam, but because I am doing my best. You can have such a clear and firm judgment on your own development potential and problems at this point, which shows that this child has already figured himself out in advance. If you really want to say that he is confused, careless and careless.
judging yourself and knowing yourself is only the first step. The most important thing is to accept yourself. Fang Yifan is only 18 years old, and his thinking at all levels should not be particularly perfect, but his ability to accept himself so quickly and happily is weaker than that shown by other children, which is indeed a very, very proud ability. As parents, everyone can only say that they help their children understand themselves, but this is far more accurate than that of their own use value after analysis and thinking, so I especially admire his advanced and clear self-awareness ability. Second, it is a good popularization to announce and spread the science books that attach importance to women's
sex education among the masses by means of TV series. Needless to say, with Fiona Fang's words with Fang Yifan, it's worth learning and training for many boys nowadays, but it's not just a charge for adolescent boys. Established consultation with the other party is willing. How many people grew up in confusion and timidity, and how many boys did this at the beginning, who are now adults? How many women have been consulted like this?
Men's attention to women originates from a safe, soft and open natural environment for spiritual growth. The level of women's personal feelings of being valued and respected, in a sense, also reflects the development trend level of today's social development. May we have a lot of men and women who respect each other. Thinking about my physiology class in middle school is like sailing aimlessly on the lost dark water, and then I don't know why, I will tell you that class is over. Iii. sex education in adolescence
sex education in adolescence has special practical significance. At this stage, most children enter the stage of youth development in turn, and girls mainly show menstrual cramps, while boys mainly show frequent nocturnal emission for the first time. They have gradually paid attention to friends of the opposite sex, have a looming sexual awareness, and gradually have curiosity and get along with friends of the opposite sex.
At this time, the key contents of sex education are: the professional knowledge of physical health in adolescence, the knowledge of health care in physiological period, the standard and common problems of communication between men and women, how girls protect themselves, the basic social moral standards of marriage and friendship, the establishment of the basic provisions of morality and law on the relationship between men and women, and the need to know themselves and accept themselves. This time range will be from 1 years old to 2 years old.
Sex education in Chinese families seems to be stuck in a strange circle all the time. Parents are thinking about it, and you will understand it when the child grows up a little. Of course, you will know it when the situation comes ... Wait, wait, wait ... Suddenly, one day, the parents set it by default and accepted that all the children understood it. The embarrassment of this whole process is all small scenes, and it will be fine in the past. In addition, due to the lack of the whole process of parenting education, children don't know how to do sex education with the next generation, and they are gradually waiting for the day when "of course they will know".
Actually, it's not sex education today, but people's wrong views on sex education and their attitude of sexual change. Parents don't know how to open their mouths, usually because they equate "sex education" with "sex life". However, parents' wrong views on sex education usually give children an understanding that sex is shameful. After entering puberty, everyone will naturally gradually cause impulses, and at this moment everyone will feel ashamed, because "sex is a sense of shame." Some people have said before that China lacks three kinds of cultural education: sex education, love education and death education. These three definitions match the three supporting points of life: detailed human body, abundant life and life value.