Ten communication skills that make people comfortable
1. Cultivate a personal sense of humor. Many things are not as important as you think. Only after things have changed, you realize that you were pursuing so hard at the beginning. Things are nothing more than that, so when you encounter some conflicts, laugh them off and maintain a relaxed and happy state, which will further promote communication in interpersonal relationships.
2. If it is not a particularly urgent matter, please do not disturb other people's rest time. Most people don't want to have to have a job interview after get off work, in their sleep.
3. Try not to interrupt others. When others are talking
You just need to nod your head. Avoid speaking before others do or arguing with others. If the matter is urgent and you really need to interrupt someone else's speech, you should first signal, apologize, inform the other person of their understanding, and seek their understanding.
4. Remember not to talk about the merits of others. Whether it is out of jealousy or any other psychology, it is shameful to reveal other people's privacy and raise your own worth. Sit quietly and think about the past, and don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk.
5. In any communication, there must be eye contact.
The eyes are the windows to the soul. When others are speaking, you look at them calmly. This communication state will make others remember that you are listening carefully to what they are saying.
6. During the communication process, do not correct other people’s typos.
Many people are good at teaching others in their daily lives. They feel that they are the only one in the world who is right. When others say something in public, they immediately point out their typos directly on the spot. . Such a person, no matter how good your financial ability is, will disgust everyone.
7. Learn to praise others, and the praise must be specific.
The power of praise is infinite. Whether in front of others or behind others, everyone desires to be praised by others, not to be praised by others.
8. In the communication process, mention me less and me more
we]. People who often start with me are self-centered, even
Even some stubbornness is not conducive to making friends, let alone one's own upward development.
9. If you make a mistake, try to apologize immediately.
Sorry, my direct speech is the weakest explanation in the world. Don't expect to use this sentence to win the other party's understanding under any circumstances. I don’t remember where I saw a sentence. Others will not remember what you said, but they will always remember the feeling you gave them.
10. In any communication process, pay attention to your body language. Effective communication requires the perfect coordination of oral communication and body language. Rich postures and vivid expressions will make communication easier. To achieve good results, always observe the way others speak and pay more attention to other people's body language, and you can imitate it yourself.