Are you a person with your palms facing down or up?

Some people say: "There are two types of people in the world, those with palms up and those with palms down."

With palms up, people stretch out. Asking for help from others is like a beggar, begging for help from others.

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And the person with the palm down is not just asking for it.

They know how to give, and they know how to reach out and grab what they want.

In this world, there is no unearned happiness. Everything you want must be obtained by yourself.

Life and love are the same. Reaching out to ask for something will make people lose their independence and dignity.

So no matter when, please remember to remind yourself:

Be a person with your palms down. You have to earn what you want.

1. With your palms down, you must know how to give

With your palms down, you must get rid of selfishness and give something.

Only when you give sincerely, you can also receive sincere treatment.

2. What you want, you have to earn it yourself

But after a while, the colleagues who joined her at the same time showed signs of promotion, but she continued to One day, I am still doing the original basic work.

Especially for women, when you reach out to ask for money from the other person, you have already lost your status in the relationship.

4. When you are lonely, give yourself comfort

I like this passage very much:

When you are lonely, give yourself comfort; Warm yourself.

On a bumpy road, give warmth to those around you; in a stormy life, give yourself a smile.

No one can stay with anyone forever. Throughout our lives, we are the protagonists of our own lives.

Virginia Woolf said:

“Once a person has an independent personality, he will no longer be muddleheaded and waste his life. In other words, he will have a moderate sense of fulfillment and contentment throughout his life. A sense of happiness. ”

It may be easy to rely on others with your palms upward, but you will live in fear of loss all day long.

Only by being independent and having what you want in your hands can you feel at ease and win the respect of others.

From now on, be a person with your palms facing down and live an independent life.

Be less pretentious and work harder.