Every relationship will slowly transform from the passionate love period when we first met to the bottleneck period after being together for a long time. The only difference lies in the length of the transformation process. So when we encounter the bottleneck period of love, what should we do? How to better protect your love?

1. First of all, we must understand the concept of the love bottleneck period. The so-called love bottleneck period means that after two people are thoroughly familiar with each other, they understand each other better and even know each other's every shortcoming and every habit. Therefore, in To a certain extent, the sense of mystery and freshness towards the other party is reduced.

2. Don’t panic when facing the bottleneck period of love, because almost every couple will go through this stage. Just like no fruit is always fresh, if you want a fruit to stay fresh longer, Just put it in the refrigerator to keep it fresh. The same is true for love.

3. When many people encounter a bottleneck period, they will doubt each other, even doubt themselves, doubt whether the two people are suitable, and worry that the other person will leave them one day. In fact, there is no need to do this at all, in love Trusting the other party is important, and self-confidence is equally important. If you don’t believe in yourself, then who can believe in you?

4. The bottleneck period of love is just that your love is a little dull, just like a fire. If you ignore it after it is lit, it will change from a raging fire to a spark, and finally even go out. . But if we add fuel when the fire is slightly weaker, the result will be different. So when you are unhappy, always think about the happy moments and happy past events between two people. These are worth mentioning frequently. Two people can recall every bit of the past together while chatting.

5. Try to be a better version of yourself, such as learning a few dishes that the other person likes to eat, watching his favorite movies with him, going shopping with her for a day, etc. These seemingly simple things can help you get through the bottleneck period of love smoothly.

6. Many people say that you will encounter the problem of talking less during the bottleneck period of love. In fact, it is not that you talk less, but that you think too much. An old couple who have been in love for sixty years, do they have something new to talk about every day? Two people talk to each other about the dreams they had last night, share interesting jokes that the other person saw on the Internet, do things they want to do with each other, and go places they want to go with each other. These are all ways to successfully get through the bottleneck period.

Life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and so is love.

Life is ups and downs, and so is love.

Occasionally a little excitement in an ordinary life, this is the best love!