The reason why many people hate blind dates more and more is because there is a complicated connotation behind the matter.

1. Blind date is a last resort for finding a partner. It gives people the illusion of imbalance. Most people will think that an excellent person has no worries about a partner. If a blind date is needed to solve the partner problem, it means that the person is not good enough, so there is a feeling of psychological rejection.

Of course, the reality is that many outstanding people also need blind dates. Due to the nature of work, environment, life circle and other restrictions, blind dates are a helpless choice. Sometimes it's not up to you.

2. Blind date is a kind of torture to the individual's heart. The older I get, the more lonely I become. The older I get, the more I realize I can no longer make friends like before because I no longer have the time and patience to understand his past and present. Bringing him into your own world and allowing yourself to step into other people's worlds require time and careful emotional investment.

Being friends with people you don’t understand has a bitter history. At first, I really didn’t think about falling in love. After all, I was still young and still liked freedom. Gradually, it was because I was too active and hard-working at work. Who wants to fall in love takes up too much time? Gradually, I wanted to fall in love, but as for the partner, for a while It took me a while but it was hard to find.

At first, the elders would ask if we have a partner, and show us photos, and then we could talk about a partner, and then it became like whether we have a partner now, we have to go home to celebrate the New Year. When they say that they will come back for a blind date during the Chinese New Year, I think they have no patience at this time, or you have really become an older man and a woman.

From the beginning, I hope you have a good partner, and then gradually it becomes that you must have a partner, and then it becomes that as long as it is someone of the opposite sex, this is how long it takes for you to transform from a good young man to a saint warrior. Heart journey.

3. Blind date is a monotonous and crude way of choosing a mate. No matter how educated you are, no matter how high your income is in a big city, when you go on a blind date at home, you are just a human being. Although this is a cruel statement, it is so realistic for singles. You can’t bear the bullying from your boss, you can’t bear the kindness of your aunts and uncles at home, and you can’t stand being surrounded by a large number of peers or people younger than you. Already married and had children.

4. Blind date has no emotional basis, lacks the sweetness and purity of the process, and is a conditional transaction. For those of us who have been working away from home for a long time, we still hope that we can avoid going on blind dates. After all, if we have been in love and got married, our emotional foundation will be deeper. In this society full of temptations, we have never experienced laughter and pain together. How long can a relationship last? Of course, you can refute it by citing countless examples of happy blind dates and flash marriages.

In a blind date, everyone has very clear goals, or in other words, the goals of the family are all very clear, and they are all for getting married. As long as the conditions "match" each other, you can successfully enter the palace of marriage.

Actually, there is nothing wrong with blind dates. In today's society, due to the fast-paced lifestyle, many people need to make friends with the opposite sex through blind dates, and many people have found happy love.

We should be more tolerant and accepting of blind dates.

This is also a kind of social progress and the development of civilization.

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