Chu Jiu's friendship comes from the Book of the Later Han Dynasty. Wu has a biography. At that time, Shamu, a public servant, came to visit imperial academy. He had no money, but he became a guest servant in order to rent money. Yu Yu was frightened and decided to give it to Chu Jiu. " It means not to be too poor to make friends.
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a poor and studious scholar named Gong Shamu. After a period of hard study, I always thought that my study was limited and I wanted to enter Beijing Imperial College for further study. Gong Shamu's family is poor and doesn't have much money for him to study in imperial academy. So Gong Shamu went to a rich family in Wu You to make a husker. Wu You served as Qi Xiang, Chang Shi and other official positions. One day, when Gong Shamu was in Xi Valley, Wu You came to see him. Wu You saw that Gong Shamu was polite and not like a clown at all, so he began to strike up a conversation with him. During the conversation, You Wu found Gong Shamu knowledgeable and original. Wu You became friends with him before Chu Jiu, regardless of the disparity between the rich and the poor. In feudal society, rich and poor counties were different and hierarchical. It is rare for a rich man to condescend to make friends with a poor scholar, so it is passed down as a much-told story.
2. Make friends and quote classics.
According to the historical records. Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru: "One pawn is happy, and it's embarrassing." Metaphor can live and die together, * * * friends are in trouble.
During the Warring States Period, an official of Zhao ordered Lin Xiangru, a guest of Yingxian County, to leave Handan for Qin with rare treasures and treasures. With wisdom and courage, he returned to Zhao intact, was appreciated by Zhao Wang, and was named a doctor. Later, the king of Qin proposed to meet the king of Zhao in Mianchi, trying to force the king of Zhao to yield. General Lin Xiangru and General Lian Po urged Zhao Wang to attend, and designed a clever plan. Lian Po put pressure on the king of Qin by being brave and good at fighting, and Lin Xiangru saved the humiliation of the king of Zhao and returned to Handan safely with his words and loyalty. In recognition of Lin Xiangru, the Prince of Zhao named him Shangqing, higher than General Lian Po. Lian Po didn't want to. He thinks he is brave and good at fighting, and he works for Zhao, and he is the first hero, while Lin Xiangru is above himself just by opening his mouth. Lian Po defy spirit, determined to humiliate him. Lin Xiangru heard the news and avoided seeing Lian Po everywhere. On the day of the trial, he said he couldn't get sick. On one occasion, Lin Xiangru had something to do and met Lian Po in the back lane. Lian Po ordered his men to block Lin Xiangru's road in various ways, and finally Lin Xiangru had to order him to go back to Lin Xiangru's house. Lian Po is even more proud, spreading this story everywhere. After hearing this, Lin Xiangru's officials offered to go home. Lin Xiangru asked why, and they said, "We work for you because we admire you as a truly noble gentleman, but now you want to swallow Lian Po's arrogance, and we can't stand it." Lin Xiangru asked with a smile, "Do you think the King of Qin is better or General Lian Po is better? I'm not afraid of the king of Qin. How can I be afraid of Lian Po? Qin doesn't dare to invade now, but I'm afraid General Lian and I are protecting Zhao. As Wang Zhao's right-hand man, how can I ignore the country because of personal grievances? " Lian Po was ashamed to hear this, so he went to Lin Xiangru's house with Vitex negundo stripped to the waist to apologize to Lin Xiangru. From then on, they became good friends through thick and thin, and served the country together.
3. Friends and allusions are the best friends.
From "Master Zhuangzi": "The three men smiled at each other and did not rebel against each other, so they became friends." Refers to very close or congenial friends.
The original description: "Zi Si, Zi Xing, Gigi Lai and Zi Lai said to each other:' Who can take nothing as the head, life as the spine and death as the coffin (kāo, donkey), but who knows that life and death are one, I will be friends with them." The four of them smiled at each other and they became friends.
During the Warring States Period, the philosopher Zhuangzi talked about Zi Si, Zi Xing, Gigi Lai and Zi Lai, saying, "A heart of inaction, a backbone of action, a bottom of death, knowing life and death as one, who can be friends?" The four of them smiled at each other, and they thought each other were best friends.