Generally speaking, unsociable children have poor social development and weak group. When they grow up, it is difficult for them to adapt to society, get along with others and gain their understanding and friendship. Even if I have a certain ability and lofty ideals, it is difficult to achieve a career. In severe cases, it will form an unsociable, timid and depressed character.
How to educate children to fit in?
1. Parents should set an example for their children to make friends.
Parents should influence their children with sincere feelings for their neighbors and comrades around them, and often take their children to their neighbors and friends' homes to make them realize that it is a pleasant thing to associate with others.
Parents should create conditions to encourage their children to associate with their peers.
At the beginning, parents should take the initiative to invite their children to their homes, entertain their friends warmly with their children, and encourage them to take out their own candy and toys and share them with their partners. Parents should gradually let their children find their own partners to play with, and also educate their children to greet, approach and help their peers when they are in contact with them. When going out to play, let the children walk with their classmates.
Parents should educate their children not to be afraid of loss.
Such as new toys, books, etc. Children should ask their partners to play first. Parents should be strict with their children and don't indulge in shielding them. When their children have top-notch performance, they should be inspired and educated to listen to their partners. When children quarrel with their partners, they should not be partial to them and mediate. When their children show generosity and understanding to their partners, they should be affirmed and praised. In short, let your children know that they should be equal to their peers.
In this way, in the process of contact with the outside world, children will increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons, make friends and learn the ability to live independently, and gradually change from the self-centered psychology of the only child to the conscious group psychology, so as to obtain all-round psychological development and form a good personality bud.