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How should we spend this value-added period in college?

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"We are finally liberated, long live freedom!" Lin Xiaonan shouted while packing her luggage.

I stood in front of the window and looked at the hurried crowd downstairs. A group of people are waiting for the bus at the entrance of the student apartment. They are interns who have packed their bags and are ready to enter the society.

Yes, in our senior year, we are going to be liberated. There will no longer be teachers’ random thoughts, no more complicated courses, and no more final exams.

I suddenly felt like I was waking up from a dream, and my college career was about to become history.

Some people packed up their bags and were about to embark on a long journey, while others continued to chew crispy noodles in the dormitory building and prepare for the postgraduate examination. Everyone is busy working towards their goals and enjoying themselves.

Last week, another friend from the dormitory packed her luggage and went home to find an internship at her employer. The dormitory seemed even more empty. Within two days, the bedding she had "abandoned" on the bed board had already accumulated a layer of dust. .

In fact, before long, my youthful college life will be waved goodbye to me.

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I talked to my friend on the phone for two hours, and we spent every minute happily commenting on each other’s college lives. We all agreed that if we were to classify the levels of waste, I was at least still in the zone of recent development between waste and not waste, while she was already "incurable".

After what she said, I thought of using words to sort out my college life.

As an old schoolmate who is about to be removed from the shelves, I will use my own personal experience to talk to you about the one-dollar college strategy:

On how to become a shining young man through college life People

Whether you are in a new career or not, make a plan or summary for yourself when you have time!

First of all, learning.

1. Be clear about your goals during college.

As far as I am concerned, my college major was education, and most of the time after graduation, I will go to teach. Those extensive professional knowledge, profound pedagogical knowledge and extensive practical knowledge all need to be studied thoroughly bit by bit.

This road of being a teacher must be walked down to earth and perfectly.

Excellent results are the same, but interesting souls are only one in a million. In high school, we repeat the mechanical life pattern every day. As long as we remember to take improving academic performance as our own responsibility, and transition to college, we will find that life is far more colorful than we imagined.

We call the university an ivory tower, and its extended meaning is that it is a dreamland isolated from the world and a secluded place to escape from real life. It sounds fascinating, yes, but once many people suddenly jump from mechanical to intelligent, they will be limited by this excessive comfort and fail to develop.

Therefore, it is very important to be clear about your goals during college. Consciously or unconsciously, remind yourself that college is not a nursing home, but that you must rely on the results of your efforts here to obtain a "job."

Mr. Lu Xun once called on revolutionary writers and artists to get out of the ivory tower and go into society, into the center of the whirlpool, so that they can create good works that reflect real life.

Having said this, I would like to make some suggestions that represent my own views. After the college entrance examination, if your age allows, go to work during the summer. Before entering the small society of university, try your best to Get close to and understand social reality, and enrich your social skills.

In this way, you can appreciate the difficulty of life, the warmth and warmth of human relationships, discover flaws and shortcomings, and clarify the direction and goals of your university.

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2. You don’t need to take a lot of exams, just take the necessary exams.

Since the first semester of my freshman year, I have signed up for training courses to take exams, and I have been working hard for various certificates every semester. But now that I am approaching graduation, I have taken a closer look and found out that I really haven’t taken many exams. Each certificate is required for the major.

The university no longer has weekly and monthly exams, but the examination has become a big problem. There are CET-4 and CET-6 certificates, teacher qualification certificates, accountant qualification certificates, computer level two certificates...

Any major has suitable certificates, and each certificate is also a springboard for future employment.

From the beginning of entering the ivory tower, we will find that many students are either taking exams or on the way to exams. If you pass, you can apply for another certificate. If you fail, you can take the exam again.

You must have a certificate to have more confidence in finding a job.

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3. Showing others your achievements can help you a lot.

That’s right, you can’t force your studies and your grades can’t be forced.

But after all, there is an eternal pattern that teachers always prefer students with excellent grades. Those students who have poor grades and are not lively enough are always more likely to be forgotten.

Who can say that grades are really not important? Transcripts are an important criterion for honorary selection; they are also the most intuitive and qualitative method of evaluation when applying for a job in a company.

For me, receiving a scholarship is something that I am really proud of. It is an affirmation of my academic performance, a modification to my student status file, and the icing on the cake for my resume.

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Finally, let’s talk about life.

1. Participate in more club activities and enrich your interests and hobbies.

When I first entered school, both sides of the main road were lined with a dazzling array of club booths. There are animation clubs, chess and card clubs, guitar clubs, etc. If you dare to show yourself and are willing to develop new hobbies, these interest clubs are a good choice.

Of course, there are many friends like me who don’t have a wide range of hobbies and are not sociable. Interest clubs that require levels are not our first choice. Then it is better to join the student union or the Youth League branch and other school-level organizational management departments, so that you can get to know students from different places and majors in the school and improve your social skills.

As an old schoolmate, I was a loser in this area. In the early days of school, I enthusiastically joined the Youth Association Volunteer Association. Because of the conflict with the training class, I chose to quit the group after one or two morning meetings, and I have not participated in any activities since then.

Now that I think about it, it’s actually quite a pity. After all, college life without joining clubs is very pale.

2. Handle interpersonal relationships well. You don’t have many friends, but good ones.

When I went to college, the conflicts of interest were obvious, and making friends became increasingly difficult. When you are in a trough period, you will inevitably have to cater to others in order to fit in with others.

But you must remember, how can you know that you are not shining enough when you are independent from the world? Loneliness is sometimes the best period of appreciation. As long as you treat people sincerely, your simplicity and beauty will be known by time. True friendship can withstand the precipitation of time.

Fortunately, I really made a few good friends during a college trip. Someone who can wake me up by scolding me when I’m frustrated, help me vent my anger when I’m bullied, help me skip class and play string games when I’m picky...

The world is full of chaos, life is boring, and studying is boring. There must always be a few people around who can help me. A wanton, lawless partner, isn't it?

3. If you like each other and then fall in love, don’t act like a hooligan.

Falling in love is just the icing on the cake of college life, not a must.

If you like each other and are willing to take responsibility for this relationship, then this love will definitely be sweet, and maybe it can break the legend that graduation season is equal to breakup season.

But if it is to relieve the loneliness of life and physical emptiness, then don't act like a hooligan and waste each other's time, and let him be pure and natural. I believe that the best will be late, but will never be absent.

4. Broaden your horizons and improve your skills.

You have so much time after school and holidays, should you use it to pretend to be lazy?

Why not work part-time to reduce the burden on your family and achieve financial independence?

Why not get a driver’s license and have one more skill?

Why not travel and visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland?

Why not go to a concert to improve your artistic flair?

Why not go to a concert and feel the carnival atmosphere?

......

Perspective is so important, but most people are still ruined by the word laziness, including me.

I can only say that I have indeed traveled to some places in the past two years, listened to a few more residencies, and written more articles.

You are still so young, you can be whatever you want to be.

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If you seize this golden value-added period in college, at least you will bring your own light.

Before I entered college, the basic color of my life was white, and more of it was some red sand that my parents deliberately added according to the shape they liked. At that time, it was very eye-catching, but not as monotonous as mine. personality.

After entering college, my parents put down the red sand in their hands and allowed me to touch up the colors freely. Only then did I realize that every classmate was a colorful hourglass, which remained dazzling no matter how time passed.

In my university, I have skipped classes, gone out on vacation, and stayed out late. But it is undeniable that although I am in the ivory tower, I have enriched myself by learning about the progress of others. color.

Next, I will write a letter to myself at the age of 40, talking about the "success and fame" that I imagine at that time, because I hope that in the future I can be grateful for my efforts to enrich myself during this value-added period in college. I will never regret the beginning.

These are the ways I can think of to improve myself. If you have different opinions or more comprehensive ideas, you can leave a message and tell me.

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