The so-called customs clearance refers to the cancellation of attention to someone. Generally speaking, it refers to the cancellation of the attention of the anchor and star Weibo. But your situation is quite special. The anchor detained you. Well, this situation is probably because he thinks you are not an active fan, and you don't have too much interaction and reward, so he took it off.
Look at your description. In fact, the process is very clear: you and this Tik Tok blogger accidentally brushed Tik Tok online. Because he is an emotional blogger, he looks very kind. You happen to have your own emotional problems and don't know what to do. So you went to the live room for interactive consultation, and almost every day, and often sent him private messages, so he saw that you were an active fan, so he got closer to you.
But bloggers always want to realize their traffic, so you may ask more and get less rewards. He thinks you just regard him as a free consultant, so it is not painful for him to answer your question quickly. To put it bluntly, it is a formal reply, and he is not in the mood to help you solve the problem seriously.
In this strange situation, the relationship between people can only be maintained by interaction. As you said, you have been like this for a month. Later, you were busy with your work and didn't consult your emotional problems. He thinks you may have solved your emotional problems yourself, or he thinks you don't need to contact him anymore. Because you are not an active fan, you were taken away. This situation should still be normal.