If Dong Ge succeeds in marrying Nurhachi, it will be with his aunt Meng Gu's sister. But she resolutely opposed it and said to her brother Buyang Goubelle, "Nurhachi is the enemy of killing his father. I will marry whoever can kill him. " As a result, Yehe destroyed the engagement between Dongge and Nurhachi, and openly demanded that all tribes marry Dongge on the condition of "killing Nurhachi".
In fact, this is the third time in the history of Dongge's marriage that the marriage has broken down. At the age of nine, she promised to marry Baylor, a bad businessman in Hadabe. However, this is just a honey trap: on the way to the wedding, the bad businessman was killed by the ambush of Ye He, the "father-in-law". Later, Yehe Department betrothed Dongge to Wulabubu booth, inducing him to participate in the "Nine-part War", in which Bubu booth later became a prisoner of Nurhachi. Four years later, when the booth was released and married, Dong Ge had been betrothed to Nurhachi.
On hearing that Dong Ge was getting married, Meng Gebulu, the head of Hada Department, immediately became furious, signed up for Beijing and declared war on Nurhachi in May of the 27th year of Wanli. In September, Mongbulu was defeated and surrendered to Nurhachi. Nurhachi found an excuse to kill him and married Fu Cha's daughter to his son Ulugu. In the 29th year of Wanli, Hada was completely annexed by Nurhachi.
The end of Menggebulu did not stop the men who coveted the beauty of Dongge. In the thirty-fifth year of Wanli (AD 1607), Bayinda Baylor, the leader of Huifa Department, got engaged to Dongge, breaking the original engagement with Nurhachi's daughter. In September, the angry Jianzhou Jurchen sent troops to Horqin City and destroyed Huifa Department without much effort.
Then, Dong Ge once again engaged to Baylor Buzhantai of Urabha. When Cloth Booth heard that he had a chance to win a beauty, he immediately forgot all about his sixth marriage and seventh vows with Nurhachi. At that time, he sent heavy troops to ambush one of his father-in-law, Shu 'erhaqi, and his brother-in-law Qi Ying and Dai Shan. After the defeat, he shot Shuerhazi and asked him to marry his daughter, Enzhe. Ernzhe ran back to Nurhachi to complain, and Nurhachi, who was fed up with it, led an army to attack the Wula Department in September of the 40th year of Wanli. In the first month of the second year, the Wula Department perished, and the cloth booth fled to the Yehe Department.
However, Dong Ge, who has a high vision, doesn't even care about the booth of the defeated general. She refuses to fulfill her engagement. Angry and ashamed, Bu Zhantai soon died of depression.
In the forty-third year of Wanli (A.D. 16 15), Dong Ge was thirty-three years old. Gisai, the son of the Minister of Rabbit Warming in East Mongolia, took a fancy to her and proposed to her brother Buyangguli. But Dong Ge didn't take a fancy to Giselle. Even though he threatened to conquer Ye He, she refused to get married. Just as Giselle and Nurhachi were preparing to have a big fight for Dongge, Munger Gourdet, son of Dahambelle in Gurkha, East Mongolia, also proposed to Dongge. Buyangu, who was exhausted by his sister, wanted to distract Giselle and Nurhachi, let them find trouble with Mans Gourdet and take advantage of themselves. Finally, despite the warning of the Ming border guards, he made up his mind to marry Dong Ge to Mongolia in September of that year. When Dong Ge got married, her age was far beyond the common marriage age at that time (at that time, some women were at her age, I'm afraid they were already grandmothers), so the history books also called her "Ye He's old woman".
However, what Buyangu didn't expect was that Dong Ge died less than a year after his marriage, and Nurhachi's anger was still going to attack Ye He.
Nurhachi officially proclaimed himself emperor, and established the post-Jin Dynasty in the year when Dongge died. Three years later, that is, on April 13th, the third year of the appointed rule of the late Jin Dynasty (forty-six years of the Ming Dynasty), Khan Nurhachi of the late Jin Dynasty released the "seven great hatreds" and broke with the Ming Dynasty. The "fourth hatreds" were that the Ming court stood on Ye He's side, and made the Ministry spread the promised East Brother to Mongolia.
In August of the following year, Nurhachi destroyed Yehe Department for the same reason.