Quotes from "Scumbag": Cast a wide net, don't feed, don't refuse, don't stay away!
The first sentence is "cast the net widely and don't throw in the food". "Cast the net widely" means making friends very widely. What this sentence means is that when making friends, you may talk more and maintain a certain degree of contact with many people, but you will not give too many explicit instructions. I just like to be quite ambiguous with many people, but I won't be particularly close to them. This gives people a feeling of being far away, giving others hope but not giving them results. If a boy does this, it will generally be seen as a "scumbag" in the eyes of girls.
There is also "don't refuse, don't stay away". This kind of behavior is actually very offensive to others. If a girl has a certain affection and doesn't refuse when she gets close, but it's also Don't stay away. This approach can easily give everyone an illusion, making people feel that they are hopeful and have a good impression of themselves. When faced with the kindness of the opposite sex to them, they choose not to reject or stay away from them, which makes it easy for everyone to Create misunderstandings and give people unnecessary hope.
There is also "not explicit, not proactive", which means that some boys neither take the initiative nor clearly express their attitude when interacting with girls. Generally speaking, in this case, you don't need to be responsible for anything that happens, because as long as you don't take the initiative to explain your attitude, you don't need to be responsible for anything that happens.
Extended information:
Scumbag man's quotations:
1. I don't want to delay you.
2. I didn’t force you, it was all of your own free will.
3. Any of my previous girlfriends treated me better than you.
4. No matter who I am with, there is a corner in my heart that will always be reserved for you.
5. No one can be inseparable from anyone, so be good.
6. You don’t know my mother. My mother is a kind person.
7. Suspend the relationship