This sentence accurately reflects a social phenomenon of human feelings and the changes and manifestations of external relations between people. No one can look at people when they are poor, and once they are rich, people who have nothing to do with them will visit them. This atmosphere is not good. We have reason to believe that with the development of society, the improvement of national quality will gradually change.
When the teacher friend asked about it, my brother watched people cry. The society used to be better, but now it has become unbearable. In the past, a gentleman held a wedding, and the older generation ate vegetables first. The elders didn't eat first, and the younger generation didn't move the food first. The size of the generation is very clear and can be seen on the wine table. If any family is in trouble, these four neighbors will help them get close to each other and help each other live together. Rich people help borrow some money and build houses without interest. Their generation pays attention to arithmetic, but the younger generation agrees. In terms of basic appearance, there are several decimals in the world, but now society can't see them. Everyone is devoted to money. What do you mean by elders? If you want to be rich, you must respect the rich first, but for generations, you must be tall and have no money. Sitting in the corner of the table, no one asks, just like the poor in downtown, the rich build mountains. Since I went to the folk to see it, all the people in the world have a small heart, and they all strive to live their own lives and live happily. Their brothers starved to death, so they quickly got off the net to cook and eat, wishing their friends online games and walking happily in the world of mortals.
Busy and poor, no one asked? This sentence means that even if you develop in a bustling city, you have no money and no power, and your life is ignored.
Ricky has distant relatives in the mountains? It means that money and power are always linked, and money has power. If a person is rich and everyone wants to associate with you, even if he lives in a distant mountain, he will still associate with guests.
Even if the poor live in the busiest downtown, no one cares, and relatives and friends are afraid that you are poor and avoid it; Neighbors are afraid of you borrowing money, so stay away from them. In short, the house is deserted.
In today's society, it is difficult to do things without the help of nobles and financial support. To win over a rich and powerful person, you need to interact frequently and enhance your feelings. Even distant relatives can be very affectionate. Everyone likes to deal with rich people, so you can't miss the opportunity to meet and increase your feelings.
Being poor and depressed, always taking the lack of money as an excuse and not actively striving for opportunities, is a lack of ambition, but the poor are willing to work hard, extremely upward, study hard and have the determination to change poverty is a lack of ambition.
Don't show off if you have money, and don't complain if you have no money. Live an ordinary life with a normal heart, calm and happy! Three poor and three rich are old, who knows whether it will rise or fall after ten years, and no one says anything behind it, and no one says anything behind it!
Do not agree with this sentence. Although this is a very realistic problem, we should look at the old problems with new thinking.
First, don't ask the poor in downtown, wealth has distant relatives in the mountains, which is relative to people who love poverty and wealth. It has been caused by people's misunderstanding for a long time. When people's values stay on the surface of wealth, they will lead people astray, and it is easy to agree with this view. There are many examples in history, such as Confucius, who is not rich, but can win the hearts of the people, win the hearts of the people and follow him.
Second, the current social values have changed to beautiful values. As long as you are thoughtful, helpful and advocate positive energy for the society, you will be respected and praised by everyone. Even if you live in a deep mountain, no matter how poor you are, some people care about you and visit you. Even if you live in a bustling city, there will still be people who care about you and come to you to be caring and attentive. Just imagine, no matter how rich and unwilling to help, who will go near him?
Therefore, I object to this old saying. New society, new atmosphere, new ideas, I believe this sentence has become the past.
Yes! But do you know where it is?
I can analyze it from the perspective of material acquisition.
First of all, people living in the streets are closer to more social wealth, while people living in deep mountains are relatively farther away from social wealth.
A person far away from more social wealth is richer than a person close to more social wealth. What does this mean?
This shows that people living in deep mountains, although far away from more social wealth, can be more sensitive to wealth and give me more opportunities to get wealth.
The world is willing to go all the way to get close to him, only hoping to follow him. Once there is a new opportunity to gain wealth, you can have soup with him and make money with him.
On the other hand, the man who lives in the street, although facing more wealth every day, has never lived with wealth, so he becomes poor.
From the point of view of the world, this man can't get wealth by himself, so he walks around lazily, because he can't make money and he can't get any benefits by spending time on him. Instead of wasting time on this useless walk, it is better to use this time to move two bricks to make money.
To put it bluntly, people who can get rich in the mountains may get more wealth once they get to the street. Poor people in the street may be poorer in the mountains.
From this perspective, even if you live in a city, you can't get rich. It's normal for others not to get close to you. There's nothing to complain about.
But then again, these thoughts have certain limitations of the times, because the main carriers of wealth in different times are different, so the wealth in the mountains and the poverty in the city are sometimes beyond people's control.
The change of the times is actually the changing process of the utilization of natural resources. Different times have different resources to support, and social wealth always swims to the resources that support and promote the development of the times.
Some things are really beyond people's control.
Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, the wind and water turn around, and it is true that you should not be so snobbish.
I can only tell you that the faster the times develop, the more you can't look down on people, because the times develop rapidly, and social Baidu is in Hedong Hexi? The turnover cycle of the two places will also be accelerated, and the poor may only need one or two years to turn around.
The poor live in downtown areas, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This sentence is not false at all, and it is also a bitter and bitter experience summarized by many ancient people from their own personal experiences. This also fully shows that there are still many snobs in society and few real gentlemen. All the wine is the person who toasts the meat first. Who has ever seen a beggar sit respectfully at a banquet?
However, everything should be treated in two ways, and a real gentleman pays attention to discretion. Treat sincere friends, confidants and relatives, respect people, rich or poor, respect people, even if there is something to help across the mountain. The snob is to treat people as spectators. Be respectful to some rich and powerful people and be eager to give them shit. Don't say it's far away, even in the mountains and forests, they will visit and make friends. On the contrary, people who have no power, power and status are highly qualified and respected people, and even if they meet every day, they will not take the initiative to say hello.
Because, I had a personal experience of "downtown poverty", that is, when I contracted projects to do business, people walked around me every day to help me do this and that, and looked like brothers up and down. As a result, after my business failed and I lost all my money, it was too late to avoid me again. I was called by my first name, and some people even gave me nicknames, gossiping behind my back, eating my chop suey, or satirizing me in my face and trying to kick me again.
Therefore, make friends, water the trees and roots, respect the gentleman, and treat others with sincerity, regardless of wealth. For those snobs, you deal with them and keep your dignity, so that you look down on me and I look down on you!
No one asks if you live in a busy city, but if you are rich, you have distant relatives in the mountains. This shows the real situation of most people in the world, that is, most of us are snobs, and only a few people can be extraordinary and treat the poor and the rich equally. I think we should learn from these people, don't be so snobbish, be selfless, benefit others and be a noble person, a person who is free from vulgar tastes and a moral person, as Chairman Mao said. Let's join hands and be a positive person.
This sentence is very reasonable, which is reflected in daily life and social life. Tathagata, you are a poor man. If you borrow money from relatives and friends, they will be afraid that you can't pay it back. Even if I can afford it, I don't know what to wait for. So they will politely refuse for various reasons. If you are rich and ask them for money, they will not hesitate to agree, because you are rich, have status and power, and they have no scruples in their hearts, and even want to curry favor with you and follow you. Life is so realistic.
It means that poor people live in downtown areas and they have no friends. Rich people live in the mountains, and relatives and friends will come to see you. This is a poem written by Lv Mengzheng to his father-in-law in Song Dynasty. Meng Zheng was very poor at that time, so he borrowed three taels of silver from his father-in-law, but he didn't lend it out at that time. Later Meng Zheng was admitted to the first prize, and his father-in-law pulled a lot of money to Meng Zheng. At that time, my daughter denied her father. My daughter said that my husband lent you three taels of silver, and Meng Zheng advised his wife that it was not as bad as what your parents gave him at that time. Then today, the rich topped the list. At that time, Meng Zheng wrote a poem, which was originally written by Lv Mengzheng. He only changed his clothes, not his replacement. No one in the street asked him if he was poor. The rich have distant relatives in the mountains.