Make friends, as long as they are out of place, it is best to make friends. All kinds of people have it, some are charming, but it may also be snake venom. Some people are neither fish nor fowl in appearance, but their hearts are as clear as a mirror. However, no matter who can hand it over, from the perspective of their own development interests, a wide network of interpersonal relationships can bring more opportunities, and no one knows whether you will work for him, even if he is seriously incompetent.
From your question, I know that your core problem is mainly fear of being slandered by villains and harming your own interests. This is actually seen from ordinary life. There are too many skills and good packaging now, and my heart can be dyed red, and my sly smile has turned into a smile. It is difficult to get accurate information simply through simple communication. However, if you have studied relevant psychological knowledge, you may be able to understand a person's real thoughts by observing the changes in his eyes and expressions. There are many ways of expression, and it is possible to express two completely opposite meanings with a slight change. You can also get more accurate information from each other's language and behavior through simple reasoning.
In the workplace, beware of strangers everywhere, especially those who feel strange, less enthusiastic and less indifferent. And don't be greedy for petty gain, petty gain is a prelude to the other party's greed for their petty gain. When your interests are hurt, you must make a gesture of resistance, so that various forms may not necessarily face him face to face, or simply use your own actions to show that if you dare to infringe on me, you will not feel better. Sometimes it is more necessary to hint at each other or even let them out to solve problems. There is no absolute standard for this. Analyze practical problems.
Paying attention to convergence and keeping a low profile at ordinary times is one of the best ways to avoid those elusive poisonous needles. In normal times, don't build a high wall of psychological defense, because there are still many friendships and even love in this world, and a high degree of psychological vigilance will keep them out with evil forces.
The most important thing is to ensure that your own interests are not infringed. The other party is very cunning. Don't worry. If you can manage your interests, you don't have to worry. If you can manage it well, it is easy to play with fire and set yourself on fire.