Character is the foundation of trust and the foundation of communication. "The Doctrine of the Mean" says: "Honest people are the way to be human." Honesty, friendliness and trustworthiness are the traditional virtues and the foundation of communication with people. Honest and trustworthy people can be loyal to the true face of things, do not distort or forge objective facts, and do not hide their true thoughts. People who are open-minded, true in language and truly honest and trustworthy in dealing with others, resist taking advantage of loopholes, flattering others, pursuing fame and gain, striving for merit, practicing favoritism and malpractice, and holding their own opinions. I will be honest with others, and people will not bully me; Be honest about things and everything will be fine.
Some people never take honesty and trustworthiness seriously, which makes those who trust them feel indifferent, lose their sincerity and hurt themselves. A person with good character will always put honesty and trustworthiness in the first place, keep his word, do things reliably, keep his promise and be open-minded. Being honest and doing things honestly will gain the respect and trust of others. People like that, everyone wants to be close, everyone wants to be close. Personality is just a person's real comprehensive strength; A good personality is a person's greater confidence! To be a man, we should put character first; To make friends, we should take character as the norm. If you have a person with good personality around you, you must cherish it, which is also a rare good luck in your life.
2. People and friends who agree with your three views, the most important thing is the three views. People at different levels can't communicate, and people with different views are difficult to get along with. What do you mean by three views? Three views refer to your outlook on life, values and outlook on life. The consistency of the three views can be understood as similar views on most things and mutual understanding, attention and trust. And the three views are consistent. What is it like? To make friends with people who have the same views is to make friends with people who know you. People who know you must know your happiness, your grievances and tolerate each other's contradictions. Friends with the same views and people who can appreciate you will definitely give you confidence and make you feel at ease. You know my confusion, and I know your silence. Sometimes you can understand each other with one look. Equality or empathy, in either case, loneliness in life also means understanding poison.
The consistency of the three views is not without any difference. It's that you can understand and accept what I do, and I won't fight because of a little thing. I won't let you "throw cold water" because of my idea. You are completely adept at sports and want to ask her out next time. As a result, she said that you only pay IQ tax in the gym, and your figure is still the same. You used your hard-earned savings to study abroad for leisure and vacation, and saw the wonderful outside world. As a result, she said that you are a rich man, arrogant and spend money to find punishment. If friends get along well, even sincere and passionate love will be extinguished because of their differences. This is the person who disagrees with your three views. Everyone is not on the same channel at all. Getting along with them can only be painstaking, and it is not worth making friends. There's no need to get involved in too many people's lives. If they can't get into your heart, they will only disturb your life. Life doesn't need too much foil, and there are more friends with different views. The more prosperous, the more deserted.