How to pursue girls
From a girl's point of view, I know more about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.
When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?
Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.
If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?
Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.
It is often said that a girl's mood is like the weather. It's sunny and cloudy with occasional showers, and her mood ups and downs are really unpredictable. Hey! This sentence really hits the nail on the head From another perspective, of course, it also shows the helplessness of many boys. If you don't have any foresight, you will accept the retribution of the storm sooner or later. If a girl's temper is really like the weather, then let's take a good look at the classification of the weather! This time, let's compare the level of wind with the temper of girls.
1.0- No wind: At this time, you can't feel the temper of any girl at all, as if you were in still air. Usually this happens only when your girlfriend is not around, and your spirit can be completely relaxed.
2. 1- Roufeng: At this time, you will feel the reaction of a little girl, and you will see that girl grinning and saying that she is annoyed. At this time, you will feel that she is like a breeze in spring, which makes people feel very comfortable.
Level 3.2-Breeze: At this time, the girl has begun to show some unhappiness. She usually spits out boredom to express her feelings, but she quickly turns away. This level may have no effect on you.
Level 4.3-Breeze: At this time, you will find that girls begin to show more unhappiness and usually hit you with a little thing to let you know to stop! But it doesn't necessarily affect you, because you will think that she is joking with you.
Level 5.4-Hefeng: You will find that girls begin to express their unhappy feelings with some voice language.
6.5-Breeze: At this time, you should feel a little chilly. Usually, girls will give you a hard look and say something sarcastic. Don't think this is just a piece of cake. If you are still in this situation for a long time and don't know it, then I want to remind you that this level is one level behind the next level of strong wind!
Level 7.6-Strong wind: This is a level. At ordinary times, girls have begun to curse with their hands around their waist, and their tone has also improved. You should know how to advance and retreat!
8.7- Gao Feng: At this time, it has already started to get angry, and the cursing sounds are constant.
9.8-Gale: This level was a bit scary from the beginning. In addition to cursing constantly, there will be some loud noises and noises. Generally, you just swear and strike the table!
10.9-gale: at this level, there will be some property losses, usually she starts to drop some small things that can be taken at hand, such as pens, mobile phones and shoes! It often hurts some small things. Remember that you should have the ability to receive things in the air at this time.
11.10-storm: At this time, many things tend to break and hurt. At this time, don't pretend to be calm and don't pretend to be strong. If you encounter garbage that comes at you one after another, you'd better find shelter first, just like an earthquake.
Grade 12. 1 1- gale: this grade is just like the name. She will rush to hit people like a madman, often causing some disasters to mankind. Normally, she can't escape with a slap.
13. 12- hurricane: this level is also a strong typhoon that we are familiar with. If we don't take preventive measures, there will usually be casualties and disasters.
How to please girls;
If you have the right girl, you should cherish the affection between them. You should learn to care about her, love her, and let her feel how much you care about her. To be a boy, you should read a girl's mind, understand her mind, and let her feel your meticulous care. She sings beside you like a happy bird. You should learn to walk, go shopping, sing, dance, and go on an outing with her ... You should always give her freshness and buy her some trinkets, which are cheap and can express your admiration, and make her think that you are a good boy who knows interest and loves life, and she will love you more.
Only by understanding each other can we have a common language, and only by forbearing each other can we make love sweeter. You should let her know that girls should be spoiled, loved, cared for and cherished! Love means giving, dedication, and love means making you happy all your life. This is true love! I believe that with your intelligence, you will definitely win the favor of girls!
Teach you how to please girls.
1. "May I ask you the way?" "Go there?" "Go to your heart. 」
2. "Can I borrow a dollar from you?" "Why? I want to call my mother and tell her that I just met the girl of my dreams. " Or "I want to call your mother and thank her. 」
3. "Is your father a thief?" "No" "Then how could he steal the bright stars and put them in your eyes? If they answer you "yes", you should be prepared.
4. "You are so warm, even the plastic in my underwear has been melted by you. 」
5. "Your legs must be very tired, right?" "Why?" "Because you have been running around in my mind all day. 」
6. (Look at his/her clothes label. When they say, "What are you doing?" Answer "just to see if you are made in heaven." "or" just to see if you are my number. 」
7. "Sorry, I lost my phone number. Can I borrow yours? 」
8. "I hope you know CPR, because you are so beautiful that I can't breathe." 」
9. "Miss, please give it back to me!" "what!" My heart, you took it away with your eyes! 」
10. "There must be something wrong with my eyes. I can't take my eyes off you. 」
1 1. "I had a bad day. Seeing a beautiful girl smile will make me feel better. Can you smile for me? 」
12. "It's raining heavily today." "Yes!" "That's because God drools at you. 」
13. "If I could rearrange English letters, I would put U and I together. 」
14. "Sorry, I'm an artist. Staring at beautiful women is my job. 」
15. "Believe me, I will make you the second happiest person in the world." "Why not be the first?" "With you, I am the happiest person! 」
What do men attract women by?
What do men attract women by? What is the attraction of the husband? In a wife's mind, what kind of husband can make her fall in love with and make a woman give up her life for love? After reading some materials, there are mainly ten points in summary:
First, the truth.
It is best to tell the truth without thinking, and how to express it is true; Lies are the most difficult to tell. If you don't make them up tightly, you will let them out carelessly. It's hard to be artificial, and nothing seems real. Therefore, the husband doesn't have to find his own guilt, make it difficult for himself, and eventually lose his wife's trust. Therefore, truthfulness is the most powerful and confident performance of men.
Second, profound.
Many intellectuals and older young men and women feel the same way with me: it is precisely because there are few profound men that men are the most attractive. The scale of "deep thinking" is more attractive than the academic ability of graduate students, the titles of directors and ministers, and the banknotes of ten thousand households.
Third, the mind.
A scheming husband makes his wife feel at ease and grateful for safety, so life is relatively easy at ordinary times, and he is rarely afraid of anything, so he can fully show his inner world, because they are confident that even if he thinks wrong or does wrong, his husband will not cling to them and will not forgive them.
Fourth, dare to do it.
The most important quality of a person is to dare to do something. Man's philosophy is action philosophy. Men should dare to put their ideas into action instead of sitting and shouting like a cripple. You can't be an armchair strategist like a scholar. Courage includes: dare to think, dare to say, dare to do, dare to win, dare to lose, dare to love, dare to hate, dare to fight, especially to fight, "a gentleman dares to do and dare to be."
Fifth, demeanor.
This is also very important. No matter how good the moral character is, no matter how correct the style is, no matter how noble the inner world is, it is difficult to touch a woman's heart without grace, but grace does not exclude personality. Manner is related to people's temperament, depends on physical quality, represents a person's personality tendency, and has a great relationship with occupation. For men, elegance is a kind of mature beauty, and women appreciate men's maturity most.
Sixth, be smart.
Good women like "bad men". Whiter, smarter and more popular. Isn't there a saying in tradition that "men are not bad and women don't love them"? The charm of "bad" boys is their mystery. They do strange things and don't explain much. The process of thinking about problems does not tell the whole story, but only gives the final conclusion. Such a clever husband makes his wife feel deeply, and this "ghost spirit" power of men, coupled with their excellent qualities, will have a strong attraction to women.
Seven, humor.
British Prime Minister Winston Churchill famously said, "Unless you understand the most interesting things in the world, you can't solve the most intractable problems." Funny husbands are mostly optimistic people. With a positive attitude towards life and indomitable spirit, such a husband will never frown when he is frustrated and encounters adversity. He will also make jokes, make others laugh, make people feel no pressure of adversity, make heavy life look relaxed and reduce troubles.
Eight, enterprising.
As the saying goes, man struggles upwards and water flows downwards, which is also a business of enterprises. People always have to do something in this world, especially men. A great philosopher once said: Smart people create more opportunities than they find. A person's enterprise should be reflected in every moment of his life. There are three words written on every brick on the life avenue: starting point. Dude, it's never too late to start. The key is to be enterprising.
Nine, romance.
In Carnegie's book The Road to Success, there is a famous saying: Many romantic dreams make more than 50% of marriages unhappy. Isn't it often said that "marriage is the grave of love"? The biggest difference between married couples' life and love is the lack of romance. I think a good husband should be romantic, and this romantic husband is very attractive.
Ten, adventure.
Some people say that there is only one mode of success: adventure. Compared with men, women are less adventurous, but they hope that they and their husbands dare to take risks. A wife likes an adventurous husband, because it will have a mysterious, dangerous and exploratory meaning, which will fascinate people, satisfy her "curiosity", feel "exciting enough" and make women infatuated.