I believe everyone has heard the old saying that people are poor but have short ambitions. It can even be said that there is a more familiar saying in today's society, that is, "It is difficult for a rich man to be a man without money." Indeed, both sentences describe one thing in a positive way, that is, if people have no money, they will really be inferior to others.
For everyone, perhaps they will experience the darkest period in life. Only after experiencing it can they be considered growth. Recently, Xiaopang saw a very interesting topic in the community: How did you turn around when you were the poorest?
So, it is said that when people are poor, they have short ambitions. How can people turn around when they are the poorest? What will happen to people if they are too poor? Are poor people really unworthy of talking about dreams and goals? Today, let’s talk about the things of the poor.
1. How should people turn around when they are the poorest?
Strictly speaking, I personally feel that the real people are poor and short-minded, and the ones who are most impressed should be young talents. After all, young people have just emerged from society and don’t have much money. If they encounter some setbacks at this time, they will definitely feel a little disappointed in life.
For example, when Xiaopang first came out of the society, he went to work on the assembly line. At that time, his monthly salary was less than 1,800 yuan. Perhaps because I made careless friends at the time, I met a liar and defrauded me of my entire month’s salary.
During those days, I was really struggling with money and only ate steamed buns every day. I have to say that I was truly poor. However, this so-called poverty is indeed nothing. After all, I have managed it, and from then on, I have said that I will never lend money to others or ask others to borrow money in the future. Perhaps only in this way can we keep our money and avoid living such a hard life again.
2. What will happen to people if they are too poor?
I don’t know if you have noticed that if you have no money, you may not be able to straighten your waist when walking, or even have no confidence to speak. Not only that, even if you are walking on the street, if you see someone reversing their car, you will deliberately stay away, for fear of being scolded if you bump into them.
This is the thinking of the poor and the situation of people who are too poor. Frankly speaking, people are strictly equal, but because we are so poor, we no longer have even the most basic self-confidence, and sometimes even no dignity as a human being.
So many times, when people are extremely poor, they will hate the rich and even imagine that they will become rich one day, and then spend money randomly and so on. I believe everyone has seen this kind of mentality and current situation a lot, and sometimes you don’t know whether to shake your head or sigh.
3. Should poor people really not talk about dreams and goals?
Strictly speaking, our ancestors have been farmers for several generations, so we all have the same origin. It's just that because some people's families have better luck, they eventually escape poverty, become rich, and live the life we ??long for.
So, if we are poor, are we really not worthy of talking about dreams and goals? Actually no! You know, the poorer we are, the more we should have dreams, and even the more we should set some goals for ourselves. Only in this way can we change our situation and current situation in the future.
Of course, there is a more important point, that is, if we cannot change the current situation of poverty in this life, we should work hard to train our children so that they can obtain higher academic qualifications and learn more. Many technologies. In this way, the next generation may no longer be poor. This may be the intention of many parents.
Many times, if people are really too poor, they will subconsciously feel inferior.
Xiaopang has experienced this feeling personally. Of course, he is still on the edge of poverty today, but he is very open-minded and does not specifically compare the gap with the rich. Because of this gap, the more you compare, the more tired you become and the more sad you are.
Of course, after get off work, I will also work hard to learn some skills, and even continue to read books to improve my abilities, etc. Because I believe that I may be poor now, but as long as I work hard in the future, sooner or later I will be slightly richer than before, right?