There are always several parks in the city. Choose a secluded place and quietly set it as a gathering place for blind date. Saturday and Sunday are the most active. Most of them are spontaneously formed by the people and supported by the park management.

The scene was crowded, and A4 paper, printed or handwritten marriage information was posted on the wall, tree, rope and umbrella, including personal information, contact information, mate selection requirements and so on.

Young singles can post their own marriage information there, and at the same time take some heterosexual marriage information and watch it slowly at home. It is recommended not to stay too long. In recent years, the number of discouraged singles and people who admire their parents has gradually increased, and the blind date corner has become the home of parents.

Occasionally, young singles enter, and parents immediately come to chat, leaving one after another. The inquiry is simple and direct, and the conversation has no privacy, because there are parents' circles listening. It looks like a sheep has entered the wolves.

Most of the marriage information sent by the blind date angle is female. There are many parents at the live event. In the meantime, it has long been mixed with the sales of matchmaking.

It's called the blind date corner, but there is no meeting between men and women. Here, it is more like a single information exchange place, where parents and relatives meet.

You: No money. Can meet the right one with low probability. Time and place are fixed.

Disadvantages: Being single is embarrassing. It takes time and energy from parents, and children may not buy it. Will receive inexplicable harassing calls.

Recommended: single person ★

Parents ★★★★

2. Traditional matchmaking agencies

There are X Marriage Center, X Matchmaking Company, X Love Club, X New Blind Date, etc. In fact, they all have the same meaning, just avoiding the word "matchmaking agency". Because in recent years, this term has a bad impression on the public, but as long as it is mentioned, it will lead to the associative word "marriage". (There will be a wedding support topic later)

The traditional form of matchmaking agency, which used to be the responsibility of the civil affairs department, is now managed by the industry and commerce, which is convenient for registration.

According to the phone number and address left by every matchmaking agency in many media, just come to the door. Most of the fees are on the high side, and the service is good or bad. We should bargain and strive for reasonable service. Whether you can find a suitable partner depends on the integrity of the matchmaking agency and your sincerity in marriage.

Most of them are one-on-one blind date meetings. Whether matchmaking agencies and blind dates are reliable or not depends on your own feelings. Don't trust the receptionist's advertising language and sales terms.

The minefield of traditional matchmaking is very large and needs a pair of discerning eyes. I can't say which matchmaking agencies don't have wedding support-they are suspected of advertising; I can't say which matchmaking agencies have wedding support-I'm afraid of wrangling with me. I can only say that there is really wedding support, which has nothing to do with the size of the matchmaking agency, but is closely related to the boss's conscience and moral integrity.

Excellent: relatively safe. There is a real-name audit of documents. Occasionally, I can meet reliable people.

Disadvantages: high cost. You will meet a wedding support in some matchmaking agencies.

Recommended: ★★★★

Step 3 eat grass by the nest

If you don't eat it, others will eat it. Say goodbye politely and choose for yourself.

Classmates, colleagues, friends, neighbors, repeat familiar names, look for lonely people, crawl forward, approach slowly, and wait for opportunities. Even if you can't eat it, smell it.

Excellent: As long as the weight is accurately estimated, the success rate is very high.

Disadvantages: Make friends if you don't succeed. From then on, Qingqing was a passer-by.

Recommended: ★★★★★★★

4. Introduction by relatives and friends

If you are blind and avoid the grass by the nest perfectly, you can consider finding someone to introduce you.

There are many enthusiastic aunts. Are you embarrassed to ask? No problem. Give parents a hint. As soon as you let go here, it immediately spread over there, and the matchmakers followed suit. Don't put on airs Let's talk about it when we meet. When we meet, you will find that blind date is not a scourge. If we agree, we will make another appointment. Don't be old, miss the best opportunity of blind date, want to find someone to introduce you, no one cares about you.

If you are afraid of the aesthetics and tastes of your aunts, you can ask your brothers and sisters for help. As long as your character is not too bad, someone will always help you hook up. Better than the elders, friends are always on the same stage with you, and the recommended people have a high hit rate.

Of course, it's good to hear what they have to say. They may be familiar with each other and only know that they are single. You must contact and identify them yourself.

If you are dating, go more, just like a novice playing billiards and poking a few more shots, you will always meet.

Excellent: from running errands in the early stage to mediation in the later stage, you don't have to worry about it, just go to people according to the appointment.

Disadvantages: parents and matchmakers will force questions, and if they are unsuccessful, they will make up high-sounding reasons. It is also possible that relatives and friends will know that the other party is not interested in you and has no face.

Recommended: ★★★★★★★

5. Marriage website

Most registered members are single people who want to get married, so it takes some time and energy to find each other in the station.

Early dating sites were free, but now they are all kinds of packages, so it is understandable that the website operates at a cost.

Some dating websites advertise very hard, and there is basically no service, which is purely a bluff.

Large-scale marriage and love network, with cable outlets everywhere, will have telephone promotion service, which is very expensive, mainly for middle and high-end people.

Small dating websites are mostly local matchmaking websites. Registration is free, and there is generally no interactive function. The ultimate goal is to encourage singles to interview matchmaking entities.

Excellent: the opposite sex is concentrated, and the contact information of the other party can be obtained through functions such as door-to-door letter collection.

If you can accept the cost of a physical store, offline one-on-one blind date is also simple and fast.

Disadvantages: low cost performance; There are many liars; Always face warm greetings from telemarketers.

Recommended: ★★★★

6, dating APP

Pocket dating applications, many searches, are the same as large and small dating sites, but the service extends to mobile clients.

Most users are young people with a clear desire to get married.

Excellent: convenient, can use the debris time.

Disadvantages: most news reports about being cheated are concentrated here; There are many similar apps, so patients with difficulties should be cautious.

Recommended: ★★★★

7. Folk blind date group activities

Search for "local name" plus keywords such as marriage, blind date and making friends. And you can find more than n local free blind date groups. Just apply to join.

These groups are spontaneously formed by single people who have longed for marriage for many years; There are matchmaking agencies set up in batches to drive sales; There are other businesses that are established to drain guests.

Some groups are crowded, active and powerful; Some groups are negligent in management and lifeless; Some groups are used by various businesses to display advertisements.

In any case, it is easy to join and quit the group. You need patience to find the right blind date group. Join the group not for chatting, but for group activities, blind date or implementation.

Most blind date groups are spontaneously organized by the people, not for profit. It is recommended to participate in activities, and the fee for eating, drinking and having fun is AA by default. The author personally tested several activities and felt more reliable.

Because of non-commercial activities, group owners are voluntary, and the activities lack overall planning, sometimes not, both good and bad.

Excellent: There are many successful and good free channels.

Group activities are relatively safe. It's not awkward to meet, but we can talk in private and make an appointment alone.

Disadvantages: Group activities are unsustainable. Without supervision. Group membership information has not been reviewed.

Recommended: ★★★★★

8. Use social software

The mainstream is WeChat and QQ, and others.

Search nearby people, search by gender and age, drift bottle … all kinds of functions can be tried.

To find a target from a large number of people of the opposite sex who are willing to respond to you, such as seeking gold in the sand, the other person must have the same conditions, similar views, be single and not a liar. Although the probability is low, it is not impossible to try.

Excellent: a good way to meet the opposite sex in batches, which can avoid the embarrassment of hitting on strangers.

Disadvantages: A lot of time spent chatting online may be wasted. Seeing the light is easy to die, and the reality is quite different.

Low barriers to entry, mixed fish and dragons. Convenient for you and the liar.