A bosom friend, or soul mate, has nothing to do with gender, but the fit of the spiritual world.

Same-sex confidants have existed since ancient times, such as Boya and Hippo Chef, Jing Ke and Gao Jianli, Nalan Rong Ruo and Gu Zhenguan.

Modern people's definitions of confidant and soul mate are completely different from those of the ancients. Modern people talk about confidants and think they are heterosexual confidants; When it comes to soul mates, it is considered an affair.

In ancient times, that kind of sincere and pure bosom friend is rare in today's society. It is precisely because of less that it is more precious and desirable.

If you want to have a true confidant, please do the following three things.

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Believe in the existence of bosom friends

A bosom friend is the most beautiful and rare of all interpersonal relationships, and only those who are particularly lucky have the opportunity to meet it. And most people, because they are not lucky enough to meet, think that bosom friends don't exist at all.

If a person doesn't believe in the existence of a bosom friend, he will be prejudiced against the bosom friend and think that it is a hidden and immoral thing.

Just like many people never believe that there will be pure friendship between the opposite sex, but whenever they see two men and women getting closer, they begin to fantasize. Whenever the opposite sex is nicer to himself, he thinks that the other person is interested in him.

Such people, even if they meet people who may become bosom friends, will miss them because of their doubts and prejudices about bosom friends.