When you are in love, being stingy is a kind of life adjustment. But after marriage, you should be mature and sensible, depending on the environment and situation, otherwise it will also affect your feelings.
In short, see your situation clearly and don't be angry with anyone casually. You can treat anger as coquetry, but you need someone to love you. If not, don't be angry, because you don't care and no one is coaxing you, but you are physically and mentally uncomfortable. It is better to make yourself happy and fool yourself.
The causes and consequences of a person's anger can be divided into two situations.
One is because someone loves you too much, and your anger is just a disguised coquetry. I want him to do something for you. I want him to spoil you, love you, make you, and coax you. So he is always stingy, and he is willing to make you happy. He may feel very satisfied. Such anger is also a kind of enjoyment in emotional life.
The other is to get married, or the other person doesn't love you so much and then get angry. The cause and result may be very different. Angry at this time may be due to family chores and become irritable. That's really angry, but I find that men may not care so much about you. Just like Lulu, when she reflects, she feels that men are under great pressure, so she should be more sensible.
At the same time, she felt that it was useless to be angry again, and she no longer had any effect on her man, but tortured herself and found herself guilty. Seeing this clearly, she didn't continue to be angry. Fortunately, their relationship has improved because of Lulu's own transformation and adjustment.