Bad friends: friends are easy to make, friendly and soft, and friends are easy to make.

a good friend: a friend is straightforward, a friend forgives, and a friend hears more.

The book "Three Friends Who Benefit, Three Friends Who Lose" is selected from Chapter 16 of The Analects of Confucius. Its original text is: Confucius said, "Three friends who benefit, three friends who lose. Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends hear more, which is beneficial. Friends will be open, friendly and soft, and friends will be ruined and damaged. "

Confucius said, "There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people and knowledgeable people. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, those who flatter on the surface and slander others behind their backs, and those who are good at rhetoric. "

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Other corrections of "Three Friends for Beneficiaries and Three Friends for Losses":

The Analects of Confucius and Ji's Chapters: "Friends are easy to make, friendly and soft, and friends are easy to make, which is harmful."

Traditional translation:

1. "It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, those who flatter but slander others behind their backs, and those who are good at rhetoric."

"flattery" and "superficial flattery" have similar meanings, and both need "rhetoric" to implement. The three kinds of people are easily confused into one kind of people, and there is no fundamental difference.

2. "It is harmful to make friends with selfish people, smooth people, and smooth people.".

"convenient" is translated as "selfish". What does the word "convenient" mean? What does the word "monarch" mean? The connotations of "tact" and "rhetoric and eloquence" intersect with each other. "tact" requires rhetoric and eloquence, and "rhetoric and eloquence" is generally more tact, so there is no fundamental difference between the two kinds of people.

Besides, it is a clever flattery, and "eloquent" only expresses the meaning of "clever words" and ignores the meaning of "flattery".

This translation: "It is harmful to make friends who like crooked ways, who are good at swinging from side to side, and who like flattering words" (Liu Xiaofeng won Carrie).

to "explore" the deviant, the deviant and the devious. "Convenient cultivation" means taking cultivation as convenience and "crooked ways" as convenience, that is, "liking crooked ways". Guangya: soft and weak; Can't be independent, swing from side to side. "Good and soft" means "good at swinging from side to side". Shuowen: "Hey, it's clever and flattering." "Toilet" means taking it as a convenience, that is, "I like flattery".

Baidu Encyclopedia-There are three friends who benefit and three friends who lose.