It's just a chat. Don't make a fuss, as if he had done something wrong to you. Get to know the truth.
You can't fly into a rage just by seeing him chatting with another woman. Many contradictions are caused by your own suspicion and lack of calmness. Instead, you will make your husband feel that you are being unreasonable and your attitude towards you will become worse. When you see him chatting with someone else, you can gather together to see what he is talking about and whether there is any panic cover-up. If you have seen it in advance, you can find an opportunity to say it and ask him who he is chatting with.
My husband was chatting with other members of the opposite sex before. At that time, he went to take a shower, and his mobile phone was on the table. I turned on my mobile phone and saw the chat record between him and this girl. My husband took the initiative to say hello to others, asked if they had eaten and what they were doing, and then talked about some daily things. Later, he asked her if she had a boyfriend and wanted to find someone. The girl said that they were quite harmonious. Then I said that I was really nice alone ...
When I saw him coming out of the bathroom, I asked her directly who this girl was and why she asked such a question. At that time, I was a little angry and my tone was not very kind. He calmly said that it was his high school classmate and wanted to introduce her to his friends, so I asked her like that. I got to say that I want you to worry so much about other people's affairs. You didn't talk to me in such a good tone. He smiled helplessly.
originally, I wanted to get angry. If I hadn't asked him to hear his explanation and see his calm appearance, I would have suspected him if I was imagining things alone, which might have estranged me from him. In the future, even if he just held a mobile phone, I would think that he was having an affair with another girl, so when you found out that your husband was chatting with another woman, you could ask who he was chatting with. If he did have some inappropriate behavior,
Everyone has his own circle of friends. You don't have to worry about normal heterosexual intercourse. Give the other person more trust, which will help you get along with your husband and wife. If you see him chatting with a woman, you can't stand it, which will make him think that you are a very narrow-minded person and will gradually lose patience with you.