There were many famous ministers of the Qing Dynasty in the late Qing Dynasty, just like Zeng Guofan and others. Zeng Guofan was a famous politician, writer and calligrapher in the late Qing Dynasty. Zeng Guofan praised literary knowledge. Zeng Guofan also contributed to the first batch of overseas students in history of qing dynasty, and was the first person to translate western literature into Chinese. Zeng Guofan himself wrote many literary works, which were handed down from generation to generation.

Among Zeng Guofan's works, Letter from Home is his most famous achievement. In Letters from Home, Zeng Guofan strictly demanded the behavior of his children, brothers and family, which is also one of the important reasons for the success of Zeng Guofan's family. Besides letters from home, Zeng Guofan also wrote many works, such as Bing Jian and Diary. Zeng Guofan's wisdom tells us that a smart person generally does not make friends with these two kinds of people, and generally avoids them if possible. If you don't know that people are sinister, then remember these two sentences of Zeng Guofan, and I can also teach you to see through everyone!

First, the villain only wants people to be grateful, and he will not be grateful; An ungrateful gentleman is unforgettable.

Villains like to be loved by others, but after being loved by others, they are not grateful, but reverse right and wrong; On the other hand, gentlemen are not used to accepting favors from others. Once someone helps him, he will always remember. What Zeng Guofan said is to tell us how to distinguish villains from gentlemen. When we meet a gentleman, even if the communication is as light as water, you will benefit a lot. And if you meet a villain, you must avoid it.

Second, it is almost "stupid" not to squat or jump.

This sentence that Zeng Guofan got in Bing Jian has a lot to do with making friends. If a person is too quiet and has no * * *, this state is almost "stupid". Just like talking to a piece of wood, he won't give you any response, even the most basic communication can't be done. How can I make friends? Smart people, when they meet such people, will not waste their time on them. Avoiding them is the best policy. For those who can't see through people's hearts, this sentence can help you not to waste time when making friends in the future.

Learn from Zeng Guofan for thirty times.

Author: Yi Xuan Literature Society-freelance writer; Historical literature researcher!

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Take a break: when we make friends, we sometimes enter a blind spot, which will make us ignore some details when we look at people. These two sentences of Zeng Guofan just remind us that we can be more careful when making friends, and don't do useless work. Do you have anything to say about it?