First of all, we have to be clear about one thing, that is, in today's society, if you don't deal with people, there is no way to survive. So if you don't like socializing, then you have to find a way. Change this character, because you need to live in this society, so you must adapt to the rules here. Besides, you are afraid of being alone, but you won’t feel this way when you interact with others.

Secondly, we must also understand that sometimes some people seem lively and have many friends around them, but they are also lonely. You are still afraid of loneliness just because you don’t have a close friend around you who is good at socializing and Not being alone does not equal the sign, so if you are afraid of loneliness and don’t like to socialize, then I suggest you find a close friend. When you have a friend by your side to accompany you, you will no longer feel lonely. , and the person who can become a close friend with you must have a personality similar to yours. As long as the two of you are together, you will have many similar topics. If you don't like socializing, you can still find a lot of fun together. .

The last and most important thing is that we must have our own way of life. If you want to adapt to this society, you must have your own style. If you don’t like socializing, but just imitate others , then you will eventually become more and more lonely, and if you are afraid of loneliness and start making friends casually, then your life will eventually rot, so we must be ourselves and stick to our hearts. , so that our lives will be rich and colorful.

When we have conflicts within ourselves, we must not panic. We must calmly reflect on ourselves and constantly summarize, so that we can truly grow.