When chatting or having a meeting, try to wait for others to finish before opening your mouth.

3, others have provided you with help, even if there is no result, but also verbally thank you.

4. Don't get emotional with people around you easily. You are not the heroine in the movie.

If you don't understand, if you pretend to understand, everything you say next is wrong.

6. Adults, when praising a person, praise the manners of others, and don't go up and say that you are beautiful and handsome.

7. Say that you are a kind, honest and kind person. You feel like you're screaming, so don't be too obedient.

8. Don't overestimate the relationship between you and your colleagues. It's just a matter of * * * together and safeguarding interests.

9. Don't always say that you give a bunch of advice for the sake of the other person, and the other person will think that you are showing your superiority.

10. If you don't have a good family and don't work hard, after 45 years old, you will either be unemployed or marginalized by society.

1 1. No matter how busy you are, you should reply to the information in other people's WeChat, even if it is an expression pack. This is respect.

12, read more books and accumulate your own reading and thinking depth, which can help you at critical times.

13, people who are very keen on making friends widely, still don't make friends, they will know how to use human nature.

14. Take out the work arranged by the leaders no matter how difficult it is, and don't directly emphasize the difficulties.

15, don't complain too much in the workplace. This is a sign of incompetence. You really need to find a leader.

16, consciously praising colleagues around you every day will have unexpected benefits.

17, eloquent, supercilious, confident people are reliable.

18, when answering the customer's phone, try to say hello at the beginning! Don't "hello ~"

19, someone pointed out your mistake. You should be brave enough to admit and prove it, and don't be a liar on the spot.

20, don't label yourself, it is easy to give yourself a lot of negative psychological hints, after a long time, even look down on yourself.

2 1, don't go to blx easily. In real life, the fittest survive.

22, willing to invest in yourself, study, fitness, beauty, this society still judges people by their appearances.

23. Some leaders will really go to your circle of friends to understand your current psychological activities, so if you spit, you will send less.

24. Don't make up for it afterwards: Who told you not to listen to me at the beginning? These words add fuel to the fire and easily cause right and wrong.

25. Take root in the industry. Don't be afraid of suffering. Do not heat it for three minutes. If you can't do it, change careers. The more turns, the less opportunities.

26. If you show off in front of unfamiliar people, it is easy to be used by people with ulterior motives.

27. It is a human tragedy to compete with others all one's life.

28, public places, open office, know how to speak in a low voice, someone will have a good impression on you.

29. Know what you really want and don't take unnecessary detours.

30. When you think it's more difficult to get a certificate in an industry than to go to heaven, it's just that you don't have the courage to go out.

Four wise suggestions to protect yourself have benefited you a lot. If you do, you can make your life and work go smoothly.

My friend Xiao Li is a simple girl. She was brought up to be kind. She fell in love twice and was cheated by men for a lot of money.

The first time was 1998. She borrowed 1 10,000 yuan from her classmate to invest in a project for her boyfriend, only to find that her boyfriend was cheated.

She and her boyfriend both paid money for the water drift, and the salary was only 398 yuan at that time. Xiaoli naively thought that the money was not for her, so she didn't have to pay it back.

Two years later, Xiaoli still didn't go back. Her classmates ran home to make trouble, and Xiaoli's mother learned about Xiaoli's borrowing money.

Her mother is very angry, but after all, she is a daughter and she is distressed.

Her mother took out the money to buy furniture for her second sister and paid it back for Xiaoli first, which made her very unhappy.

Eight years ago, Xiaoli met her current boyfriend. Her boyfriend runs a small company, but he is ambitious and wants to make a lot of money.

As a result, I lost all my savings and owed a lot of debts. Xiaoli was also implicated, because Xiaoli also helped to borrow a lot.

This time, it was her lady who was very tolerant and told her not to worry. Her family's money was slowly paid back. Family members are family members, others are others.

Others will not sympathize, let alone help, but will only look at jokes behind their backs.

So be especially kind to your family and others. Never put the plow before the oxen. Your family is your last resort.

Don't show off, others can see that you are talented, and you should convince others, instead of showing off all day and annoying others.

Teacher Yuan of our school, after every monthly exam, will go to the class to show off that his classmates did the best in the exam and tell them about other classes at the same time.

Which teacher teaches the worst class, let the teacher become the talk of students, there is always a teacher who is the last in every exam, so why bother?

None of the teachers in the school likes her, and everyone speaks ill of her behind her back. When she was in a group activity, everyone in the group avoided her.

Don't show off your wealth, as long as you know. Now the whole society hates it. You show off your wealth and your colleagues are jealous, all of which are trivial matters. If malicious people know, it will be a big deal.

Never send a circle of friends. If you are unlucky, you may get hurt. If you show off your wealth for a while, the consequence will be cremation.

In order to protect our sanity, I advise you not to show off either. Ordinary is true.

Work hard, get familiar with your own business as soon as possible, read more information, see how others do it, and learn more from other people's successful examples.

Make your job irreplaceable. My neighbor is a nanny. Her salary is always higher than others. Many people invited her. Do you know why?

Because she has a way, she not only does a good job, but also is good at coaxing the elderly. Every employer is coaxed by her, regardless of gender.

Once I asked her what happened, and she said, "I'm good at telling stories. When I watch TV, I tell old people at the same time. "

No matter which industry, to the extreme, there is no need to worry about being laid off. Only others ask for your points, not you.

Invest in time and knowledge, make yourself stronger, and don't worry about anything. Capable people can come back anywhere.

In today's society, it is particularly important to respect others. Have you found that many quarrels and fights are due to disrespect for each other?

There was a fight in our class yesterday, which was originally small, but later it developed into a fight, all because of disrespect for each other.

Xiaokang went to the toilet, ran into the classroom like a gust of wind, bumped into Xiaoming's desk and knocked Xiaoming's book to the ground. At first, all he had to do was pick them up and put them back on the table.

Xiaokang thinks Xiaoming is easy to talk to. If he doesn't answer, Xiao Ming won't dare to do anything. He also deliberately stepped on the book.

This angered Xiao Ming, who swung out with one punch and got a bloody nose, and the two immediately scuffled.

Xiao Ming's good temper doesn't mean he won't be angry, but everyone doesn't step on his bottom line at ordinary times.

Xiaokang deliberately stepped on his notebook, which exceeded the bottom line of Xiaoming's tolerance and aroused Xiaoming's anger and made Xiaoming hit him.

Xiaokang thinks Xiao Ming is a soft persimmon, and deliberately stepping on books not only disrespects him, but also obviously bullies others.

This is the price of not respecting others. Anyone who wants to be respected by others can save you a lot of trouble and make more friends.

Question: What advice do you have for young people to protect themselves?

Not much. If you can do the above four things, you are already a strong young man.

Less harm to others, less doubt to others. In addition to evaluating the advanced and competing for position, in addition to position.

What you see is not necessarily true, but what others want you to see.

He who sees through does not speak, he who knows others does not judge, and he who knows reason does not argue. ……

Say more compliments, say less or even say some sarcastic and ugly words, and even kill yourself.

They all have one mouth. It's easier said than done, but it can make a person's future and ruin a person's life.

There is a certain degree of speaking. It's easy to say, but it's hard to grasp this degree. If you talk too much, people will think you are too oily. Too few words, it's too boring for others to see you. Enough is enough, grasp the weight.

1, a dental visit is really expensive, and wearing braces is uncomfortable. You'd better brush your teeth well every morning and evening.

In the shopping mall, near your home, all kinds of members who recommend you to become members are carefully considered. Many shops are members, but the shops have changed and people have run away.

3. Change is the most effective only from now on, and you can't wait to start tomorrow and next month.

The reason why many people are unhappy is that they can't stand the status quo and have no ability to change it.

5. Exercise and reading are the lowest cost ways to change yourself. The former makes his physical quality better and better, while the latter enriches his spiritual world more and more.

6. Learn to keep a low profile. When the strength is not enough to protect itself, high-profile is to dig a hole.

7. Don't let your temper outweigh your ability. An excellent person can manage his emotions well.

8. Don't let yourself be too idle in life. Sometimes a lot of your troubles are idle, just get busy.

9. No one will be your forever backer. Your forever backer is yourself.

10, there are two ways to grow up: attending classes and being fooled. I was fooled if I didn't attend class. As is often said, learning does not suffer, and life suffers.

1 1. In this life, you have little time to study hard and you have little chance to change your destiny. If you don't grasp the time when you are a teenager and the opportunity when you are young, it will be even harder to work hard in the future.

12. In the world of adults, if you don't work hard to make money, you will eventually find that you can't afford even basic happiness.

13, it is important to have your own foundation. No matter where you are, people who eat on their own are worthy of respect. If you want applause and flowers from others, it is better to have a skill that can make you eat first.

14, it is important to keep learning. To some extent, the knowledge and skills you have learned can change your destiny. The more skills you learn, the easier your life will be.

15, it is very important to cultivate the ability to complete the work at hand independently and not rely on others. Otherwise, sooner or later, people will think that your ability is empty and unreliable.

16, independent thinking is very important. Young people should be firm, don't be easily biased by others, and don't be influenced by what others say and do.

17, we must find the right direction while we are still young. If the direction is wrong, our efforts will be in vain.

18, there are only a few people who are really nice to you, and your parents are the most common and most likely. I hope you can live up to their kindness instead of leaving your temper to them.

19, in most cases, the result of giving gifts is better than that of not giving gifts, and the result of giving gifts at ordinary times is better than that of giving gifts temporarily.

To a certain extent, interest relationship is more reliable than blood relationship, except for parents, brothers and sisters.

2 1. The relationship between friends cannot be overdrawn. Don't overdraw other relationships. What are the specific behaviors of overdraft: borrowing money from the other party but not taking the initiative to pay it back, always bothering the other party with some small things, without saying anything afterwards, and then leaving the other party through friends.

22. The attitude after borrowing money will affect the direction of a relationship. In the past, no matter how good the relationship was, I never mentioned the time to pay back the money when I borrowed it, and I didn't respond when I was urged. I borrowed it before I paid it off, which easily alienated this relationship.

23. If you want to ask for help, in an emergency, contact the person who helped you first, not the person you helped.

24. If you want to make a good impression on others quickly, you must learn to buy water. Two or three dollars of mineral water and more than ten dollars of milk tea sometimes have a great effect.

25. When dealing with people, don't be a person who always helps others, and don't be a person who always takes others' help for granted, otherwise it will be difficult to last long. Need a little balance.

When dealing with people, please remember: don't be too kind to her. Treat her well ten times, and treat her badly once inadvertently. The former is used to it, and the latter is suddenly remembered.

27. When interacting with people, please remember: let the other person see your ability and value, and let the other person feel that you can help one day.

28. When interacting with people, don't always try to take advantage of him, his friends and colleagues. Go to eat today and take a bus tomorrow. Finally, no one around you wants to associate with you.

29. Don't be a person who tells his misfortune everywhere. Life has its ups and downs. Maybe your ups and downs are nothing to others, so it's reasonable to die.

30. When others laugh at themselves, don't go along with them. Unless you want to experience it for free, don't mind offending one more person.

3 1, leave some mystery for yourself. Don't tell the truth to all people, and don't tell your secret to all your friends.

32. Complain as little as possible. Complaining will only expose your ability and keep people around you away from you. Don't be a burden to others, a burden in all senses. I used to bear a lot of "emotions" to one of my high school friends, and suddenly one day, I didn't want to listen. I am really tired.

33. Everyone has a false side, but different people show it to different degrees. So when you see through something, it is also a kind of wisdom not to expose it.

34. Communication between people is essentially an exchange, an exchange of interests and an exchange of feelings. Think about whether the feelings and values you offer are really needed by the other party.

35. It is not recommended to believe in love forever. Men are single-minded. No matter how old you are, you like beautiful girls in their twenties.

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Mai Jia read a letter to his son who is going abroad on CCTV. There is a sentence in the letter: you have no obligation to risk saving people in the mission.