At first, I was eager to play the video, which may not be good.
You can talk to her casually, you can talk about your hobbies, ask her, and you may gradually and naturally go deeper.
Don't be too blunt or unpleasant, and don't ask each other's privacy at the beginning, or ask questions like auditing.
I met a man. I work at home. The man seems to be saying, is that why you were left behind?
Do you think I will be comfortable at the age of 24? How can I be the rest?
Therefore, it may be right to speak tactfully and be as modest as possible.