Interpersonal problems among college students mainly involve dealing with the relationships with classmates, teachers, family, relatives, and friends around them. Below is the content of the articles I collected for you. I hope it can help everyone!
In the process of interpersonal communication, some bad psychological factors will affect the normal interpersonal communication of college students, making some college students afraid to interact and unwilling to Can't even communicate. Generally speaking, some difficulties are inevitable in interpersonal interactions, but if an individual's interpersonal relationships are seriously imbalanced and interpersonal interactions are often blocked, it indicates that the individual has some bad psychological qualities. The common ones are as follows:
1. Self-isolation. Some students cover up their true thoughts, emotions and desires and try to isolate themselves from the world. He even distrusts anyone, has a deep sense of wariness, and isolates himself from contact with others. Since human beings are characterized by their social nature and human development is realized in social relationships, those who are self-isolated will seriously damage their own development and growth.
2. Inferiority. Some college students often lack self-confidence, underestimate themselves, and are timid in interactions. If you encounter a little setback, you will blame the world and the world and swallow your anger. Inferiority mentality mainly comes from a kind of negative self-suggestion in psychology. These college students often attribute their failures to personal abilities, personal character or destiny, and lack enough frustration tolerance. This result strengthens the individual's inferiority complex and prevents them from taking a positive attitude towards themselves.
3. Self-centered. The purpose of interpersonal communication is to meet the needs of both parties, which is achieved on the basis of mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual accommodation, and sincerity. Some students ignore basic communication principles such as equality and mutual assistance. They are often self-centered, boastful, and domineering, and never consider the needs of the other party. Such communication is bound to fail.
4. Shy. This is a common psychological disorder. People with shyness often show shyness in interactions, act in a coy and unnatural manner, and speak in a low voice. People with severe shyness are not good at interacting and adopt an avoidant attitude toward interactions. Because shy people restrict their words and deeds too much in interpersonal interactions and are unable to fully express their emotions, they often cause incomprehension or misunderstanding between the two parties, causing the interaction to end in failure.
5. Jealousy. This is a negative psychological quality that manifests dissatisfaction and jealousy with the strengths and achievements of others, leading to cynicism or even immoral behavior. Jealousy is a despicable emotion that damages college students' interpersonal relationships. Jealousy makes people narrow-minded and short-sighted, and can easily lead to resentment, anger, fear, and loneliness. It is a harmful psychology of extreme individualism that arises from social competition.
Three fatal injuries that destroy relationships
1. Maliciously insulting the other party, or even insulting and beating the other party
This is absolutely wrong. College students are the group receiving higher education. , you must not use such crude behavior, otherwise it will not only be wrong but also may be a crime.
The second is to deliberately isolate the other party and force the other party to accept his own consciousness.
This kind of behavior is very irrational and will cause people with fragile hearts to feel inferior or give up on themselves. We should learn to be tolerant. I encountered a similar situation when I was in college, but I had no choice. I gave up on this classmate and had a heart-to-heart talk with her, and talked with other roommates to resolve the conflict. The result made me very happy. Otherwise, this classmate would feel resentful! This would intensify the conflict.
Thirdly, hurting the other party because of dissatisfaction with the other party The other party is always hostile and even retaliatory.
Conflicts are inevitable in people's interactions. As long as they are not intentional, they can be resolved through communication and sincere communication. If the harm is indeed malicious, then we can avoid it. Therefore, whenever I have a misunderstanding with a classmate in college, I will take the initiative to communicate with the other party and finally resolve the conflict.
Relevant suggestions for handling interpersonal relationships in college
1. Put learning first Center, don’t just think about making friends and forget your fundamental mission. In college, many students even rent a house to live outside for the postgraduate entrance examination. Of course, safety comes first!
2. Learn to be tolerant and understanding. Learn to take the initiative Communicate and communicate, don’t keep hatred in your heart.
3. Learn to do your own things well, don’t just rely on others, be a diligent and self-respecting person. Help those with difficulties within your ability. classmates.
4. Don’t be greedy for petty gains. Learn the consumption pattern of AA system. After all, we are all students with little income.
5. Don’t be jealous of others. This will make you unbalanced everywhere. , if others are more capable than you, learn from them. Others who are richer than you are not worthy of your envy. You must rely on your own efforts to change your destiny. Such a life will be rich and fulfilling.
6 .Don’t discriminate against your classmates, just help if you can.
7. Correct your weird behavior and learn to integrate into the public’s words and deeds. Personality only belongs to those with creative thinking, because such personality can serve Society creates value.
8. Treat life with care, correct your mistakes when you know they are wrong, and dare to strip yourself.