As a senior in junior year, this question should be put forward by my younger brother and sister in freshman year. I have some opinions on this issue. Besides having a good relationship with roommates, the most important thing to enter a university is to join various societies, student unions and the like.
Let me talk about my experience first. I remember when I first entered the university, I was really frustrated. The new environment and new things were all new. I don't know what I should do, and I don't know what the process is, so I missed joining the student union. Later, the club recruited new people, so I went to the Youth Federation with my roommates, which was more in line with my personality. In fact, I don't have any special hobbies, just want to do something meaningful in college. After entering the Youth League, I participated in almost all activities, so I met many people and made many friends. Because we often volunteer together, there is no conflict of interest between us. It is really pure friendship. Unlike the friendship between wine and meat at the dinner table, I'm not saying it's wrong to make friends at the wine table. I can really make many friends, know many people and confide in each other at the wine table, but I just know many friends. Just a meal.
There may often be small gatherings and activities of clubs and friends in colleges and universities. I think it's important for everyone to go out and get to know each other. Like-minded people go out to attend this kind of party, that is, people who are familiar with one of your friends, but I don't recommend always attending this particularly large activity, which is held by several schools, because there is no intersection between you before, and there may be no intersection in the future. This party may not be enough for you to get to know each other. Even if there is, because we don't know each other well, life doesn't intersect. Even if you already know each other, you just know each other. It is difficult to develop further, because after all, you are not from the same school, and their living environment is completely different. Apart from the nominal friendship between universities, I think it is meaningless for individuals to participate in such large-scale activities. Who is your friend or who is your friend?
Speaking of which, I think, first of all, you should choose a hobby. As the saying goes, no common cause, no common goal, no common cause. Those who can enter your social circle must be like-minded people. With different interests and hobbies, there will be no deep friendship support, and without interest relationship, this relationship cannot be sustained healthily. In other words, if you want to enrich your social circle, you should enrich your hobbies. Without rich hobbies, there is no basis for communication.
Secondly, choose people with similar interests, the so-called social circle, people are still the main body, and communication is to make a group of friends, or have similar interests, or exchange interests, and get to know and know each other with this group of people, that is, communication.
Social circles, the last part is naturally circles. What is a circle? Imagine a circle of friends. A circle is a group of people tied together. In some cases, you are a whole. You can have many social circles, economic exchanges, going out to play and hobbies. All the circles make up your social circle.
In fact, it is not difficult to broaden the circle of friends. The most important thing is to actively communicate with people you want to know, people you need to know and people you should know, and get familiar with each other.