Because it is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, we live in such a materialistic society and will inevitably be assimilated by it. The surrounding environment is too different, and it will inevitably be marginalized. Therefore, in order to survive, there is no way to become more realistic. More often, we can only choose to go with the flow instead of going upstream. The longer we spend in society, the more we understand the importance of following the trend.

People's maturity comes at a price, and one of the most important costs is that we have lost our innocence, and it is difficult for an innocent person to be recognized by society.

Growing up means getting out of the fairy tale world, and getting out of the fairy tale world will be tested by reality. When you face social reality, you can't think like a child. That childish idea can only lead to a joke and become out of place. So people who use their feet may encounter a lot of resistance. Even if we keep our initial intentions, most people will achieve it in other ways. We can only choose a form that makes us more in line with society to survive, not ourselves.

I don't know when I find myself getting harder and harder, with fewer tears, more and more things hidden in my heart, and fewer and fewer people to talk to. Maybe this is growth. Friends who used to chat late into the night may have become business rivals when they meet again. How to choose between interests? This is a difficult problem, whether to choose friendship or interest. From the perspective of their own interests, can friendship really be simple? I don't think so.

The fundamental reason is that we are in such a social environment. The original naive friendship has long been washed away by the torrent of society, replaced by a realistic vision and a utilitarian heart. There is no way to communicate with each other like this. The way adults communicate in the world is so simple and rude.