What is the character of a girl who is content with being alone and enjoying being alone?

She wants to become a mentally strong person, maybe because she has experienced a small setback in the past. Internet terms, what does it mean to enjoy one's loneliness?

Like those who need someone to accompany them when going to the toilet, Compared with girls who need companionship when shopping, don’t dare to eat out alone, like traveling in groups or need their boyfriends to accompany them throughout the trip, I, a girl who likes to travel alone, will look a bit weird. My personality is not withdrawn and I like to make friends, but I really like spending time alone. Maybe it’s because I’m naturally not afraid of loneliness, and I don’t find it painful to be alone, but find pleasure in it. I’m also impatient and don’t like waiting for others, so I can often do many things by myself, such as watching movies alone, shopping alone, etc. Go to a Western restaurant to eat, go to the doctor alone, travel alone...

I have a girlfriend who likes to call others while driving. One time I called her to talk about a small matter, and the conversation was over in two minutes. When I was about to hang up, she said, "Let's chat with me again." I was too embarrassed to refuse, so we started talking here and there, starting from personal issues. From work to leisure activities, from entertainment gossip to social news, there was a lot. At the end, she said: "I finally drove home." before hanging up the phone. For her, the loneliness for one or two hours while driving was unbearable, so she often found someone to chat with at that time. When her friends knew about her habit, they would deliberately ignore her call if they were busy. catch. In fact, talking on the phone while driving is very unsafe. Although I can't drive, I think it would be nice if I could turn on the radio while driving and listen to radio music alone. Maybe when I learn to drive, I will be in a hurry because of my poor driving skills. Apart from focusing on driving, I can't do anything else. Nothing can be done.

One time, I was alone in the cinema after watching the latest European and American blockbuster, and while wandering on the street, I met a girlfriend I met when I was a college student. She asked me what I had just done. "You have such a good life. My boyfriend is very busy and he hasn't watched a movie with me for a long time." I said at the time, "You can go watch it by yourself." But she still said sadly: "He won't go with me." "I, I don't want to go." It's like blaming her boyfriend for depriving her of the right to enjoy a good movie.

If you are afraid of loneliness, if you like to be dependent, if you cannot learn to be independent, if you feel that you cannot live well alone, then you will miss many beautiful things in life, many things in life The fun will be greatly reduced.

Anyone who has experienced group travel must know that group travel often wastes time. The gathering before departure in the morning will take a long time, and if you meet someone who is late, you will have to wait even longer. The same is true when it comes to meals and accommodation, because it often takes an hour or two to find a restaurant or hotel that can accommodate so many people, and there is no freedom and time-saving that comes with self-guided tours.

Before traveling to Tibet, I found a travel buddy from the same city on a travel forum. Because the holidays were at different times, I set off two days earlier than him. The two of us agreed that I would wait for him in Lhasa. But I received a message on the train that he suddenly caught a cold. Altitude sickness combined with a cold can easily cause pulmonary edema. It is very dangerous for people with a cold to go to the plateau. Moreover, it was his first time to go to a plateau, so he canceled the trip. But this did not affect my happy travel mood. After I arrived in Lhasa, I met another girl. I spent the first two days playing with her in order to adapt to the plateau. For me, her pace of travel was too slow. On the third day, she still wanted to wander around Lhasa, but I wanted to go somewhere else, so we traveled separately.

There was a male colleague in a certain department of the company who wanted to learn to drive. Several female colleagues in our department also wanted to learn to drive, so the male colleague decided to wait and sign up with them to attend a driving school to learn to drive. He comes to our department every three or four weeks and asks his female colleagues when they will sign up for driving school. Ten months have passed and he has not yet started learning to drive because his female colleagues are still hesitant and have not made up their mind to take driving lessons.

I once posted on Weibo: The most time-consuming things for women are: 1. Complaining about various dissatisfactions in life; 2. Struggling in a wrong love relationship; 3. Waiting for others to join in Do things, such as waiting for others to watch the latest movie together, waiting for others to travel together, waiting for others to learn to drive, play piano, or swim together. After a year, the movie has already been released, and you have not gone anywhere, and you have not learned anything. Wait. It is the most wasteful behavior of life, and the inability to be independent is the main reason for waiting. I don’t have many fans, but I didn’t expect that within half a day, nearly a hundred people would repost this Weibo post, and there would be dozens of comments underneath. Some netizens said: Waiting for so-and-so to watch a movie was my biggest mistake. Some netizens said: I have been waiting for half a year to go on a trip with my friends and we still haven’t done it yet. Some netizens said: Waiting is the first to grow old. It seems that waiting for others to do things together is a habit of many people! As everyone knows, waiting for others to fulfill your wishes is the most time-wasting habit, and this does not distinguish between men and women.

If you have to wait for others to fulfill you, you are wasting your life. People who are independent and do not rely on others will not only trouble others less, but they will also be able to embrace the beauty of life. Is anyone willing to bear the loneliness of a person?

Song: Loneliness of a Person Singer: Li Zhinan Album: Starting from Heaven Your heart lost its freedom for him, my heart was shackles for you, and I silently turned to the sky. Asking me for a beautiful outcome, it was your fault, but you asked me to bear it. I lowered my head and waited for the shadow to speak for me. The incomprehensible intertwining of you and him, I couldn’t feel you taking me seriously. Time after time, time after time, I walked away and looked back. I cried and raised my hands to the sky. If true love has no selfish possessions, I think I will let you be free. Once and for all, once and for all, I walked back. I wiped away my tears and made a promise to the sky. If true love is absolute and unreserved, I will stay with you. Is it true that girls who are lonely, lonely, and like to be alone, meditate, and enjoy being alone are very meaningful?

It may be a solitary admiration. It may also be that you are too cold at high places, or you may be closed and cold inside. . I don't like to stay with crowds for too long and have mental mysophobia. . . Just like me, I get goosebumps whenever I come into contact with strangers. . It feels like my body is dirty. .

What kind of personality does it have to enjoy a quiet time alone?

I have a quiet personality and like to be alone.

Have you ever experienced a lonely life?

I have! A person feels lonely because the amount of love in his heart has decreased, or there is no love anymore! As long as you can find love as soon as possible, loneliness will disappear immediately! If there is no one you love, think of someone who loves you! What can a person achieve by his loneliness?

I have different opinions from them! Most of the great saints and successful people are lonely. This is because loneliness gives you time, space and room for imagination. Loneliness will make you successful in your career. Loneliness can make you learn to think----Loneliness is not a bad thing. Lyrics are lonely. I'm still enjoying someone's heartache

My heart is so cold

My heart is so cold waiting for you to hurt me

The city is getting dark When love passes

How many people can be happy?

No one loves me, no one is waiting for me anymore

I don’t think I will be lonely

People in this city are too indifferent and too fragile. As a result

I am the only one left alone

I have been left alone for too long and my tears keep rolling

Who saved their love for me

My heart is so cold waiting for you to hurt me

But you still don’t understand

It’s good in the cold night rain I want you to embrace me

All I need is a word of care from you

My heart is so cold waiting for you to hurt me

It’s useless to hate myself

Is there anyone who has been hurt as much as me

My heart is like a knife, no one can tell me about my pain

Who can pass by in this city with neon lights?

Where is the next stop

Don’t ask why the sad songs are still playing

I think I can’t escape loneliness

People in this city Too indifferent and too fragile, the result is

I am the only one left alone

Too many tears keep rolling when one person is gone

Who saves the love and gives it to Me

My heart is so cold waiting for you to hurt me

But you still don’t understand

I really want you to hug me in the cold night rain

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All I got was a word of care from you

My heart is so cold waiting for you to hurt me

It’s useless to hate myself

Is there any I have hurt so many people

My heart is like a knife, no one can express my pain

My heart is so cold waiting for you to hurt

And you I still don’t understand

I really want you to hug me in the cold night rain

All I got was a word of care from you

My heart is so cold waiting for you It hurts

It's no use hating myself

Is there anyone who has been hurt as much as me

My heart is like a knife, no one can say that my pain is loneliness. What is the origin of people’s carnival and carnival being one’s loneliness?

Song: Leaves (Autumn Edition)

Singer: Asan Album: A Little Injured

Lyricist: Chen Xiaojuan Composer: Chen Xiaojuan

Leaves are wings that cannot fly

Wings are leaves that fall in the sky

Heaven should not be a delusion

It’s just that I have long forgotten

How to start flying in the first place

Loneliness is a person’s carnival

Carnival is a group of people’s loneliness< /p>

Love originally started with companionship

But I gradually forgot

How was there someone to accompany me at that time

I ate and traveled alone Stop and go

I also read and write letters by myself and have heart-to-heart conversations

But my mind wanders to where else

I can’t even see clearly

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I think I didn’t just lose you

I eat, travel and walk around by myself

I also read and write to myself by myself

Dialogue and heart-to-heart talk

It’s just where my heart has wandered

I can’t even see clearly

I think I’m not just losing you alone in English How to say

The lonely of one person